Actually, when you're ugly as a woman, if you're able to escape ridicule, the average man just ignores you. You're invisible to them. I saw someone on here say earlier that a man's "mid" is always a beautiful woman. This is because the range of women they notice are only the ones they find baseline attractive and up. I went through an awkward/ugly phase when I was younger and I cannot tell you how many men I was forced to interact with for school who would either a) forget I existed, b) were openly rude to me for daring to talk to them (again, I had to), or c) were incredibly put off they even had to interact with me to the point of sulking. This isn't an "oh whoa is me" story. It's just an observation.