Observations, absurdities and snark about polyamory. Currently living solo poly in a big city. Bi. Kinky. She/her/hers.
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As I reconnect with more friends (online, of course) I’m realizing more and more that everyone’s mental health is pretty much trash. I wish I could give them all hugs and vacations and the fall of capitalism.
I finally told my Mom about getting dumped last month and so she gave me “advice” for dating during Covid: “I know there’s phone sex, and there must be text sex, and oh! I wonder if there’s streaming sex. It doesn’t produce a lot of babies, but it might be satisfying”
I have a group of friends that loves to hang out with each other but can’t seem to get a handle on checking the group chat and gosh it’s frustrating sometimes.
I got this garden kneeler years ago for more comfy kneeling at kink parties and I gotta say I’m a bit surprised to find myself using it for actual yard work on my balcony today.
Just sent ex a text letting him know that I am not ready to be friends yet (and cancelling our online hangout plans). I know it’s right for me, so I didn’t expect to feel so sad and guilty about it!
I’m in this article and I don’t like it. 🍁🍂🥧🍁🍂
Nothing has tightened that connection between modern white women and romantic nostalgia for an agrarian life, while delivering a steady stream of autumn on demand, quite like the modern proliferation of pumpkin spice bit.ly/2HlQlmX
Anxiety and depression hit today, which means constant fights between logic brain (which insists I frantically fix everything) and feelings brain (which wants to do absolutely nothing). I am thoroughly annoyed at my mental health.
Some part of my brain is cataloguing my ex’s minor faults as if they will make it ok that we’re not together anymore. Yes, brain, I’m aware that he didn’t like Star Trek DS9, drank awful beer, and was still in the process of learning about feminism. That doesn’t make me un-sad.
Well so far it seems I’m far more normal than I expected. Who knew!
So, sometimes I bring notes into difficult relationship talks. Sometimes just a couple words, but today it was an outline. Is this weird? Do you do this?
25%Yes, often
38%Occasionally
38%No, but I might
0%Not my style
24 votes • Final resultsThe breakup anger has turned to sadness and damn do I miss hugs. #LateNightPostBreakup
One of the more awkward aspects of a breakup is telling people about it. Like, there’s a couple people that hear immediately because they are my close support people, but after that it just feels a little bit like “Hey shocking changes have happened thought you’d like to know.”
I have one kink and it’s not a good idea but it’s fun and it makes you feel better about your feelings.
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Well yet again I have some #LateNightPostBreakup thoughts. This topic: corona boundaries.
I’m a strong believer in the corona pod, which may be larger than your household, but has finite edges. But here, many people are having to go to work/school with some indoor masklessness.
And I was deeply uncomfortable. Some because of how differently he perceives risk, but more because he had been pushing on my boundaries for over a month. If he couldn’t not see his parents, that’s fine, but he should have told me we need to renegotiate *before* he did it.