If we’re getting to know each other your sexual history is your business, just as mine is my own. I really don’t need to know who you had sex with and the last time you had sex tbh.

I find trans men attractive does that make me str8 now? See this is the illogical thinking of reducing attraction to someone anatomy and exposes those folks who have a very narrow understanding of sexuality. Ppl would rather reduce attraction to categories than acknowledge the complexity and fluidity can exist and not invalidate heterosexuality or homosexuality. You cannot use someone’s anatomy to invalidate the sexual orientation of the ppl attracted to them.

Absolutely not but the more subversive question is do you believe attraction is determined by the sexual anatomy of a person? or do you recognize that attraction is more complex than someone’s anatomy? Trans women are women period but it seems when we introduce genitalia into the conversation regarding trans women, ppl always seem to ask, “How can a man be str8 if he engages with someone who has a penis?” attraction to a woman who happens to have a penis is not equivalent to attraction to a man and we need to acknowledge that, when this conversation comes up I feel some ppl use it as a way to reduce trans women to their anatomy rather than recognizing their other characteristics and seeing them as women. That str8 man may be attracted to that trans woman’s femininity, physical appearance, her gender expression etc her genitalia may not even be a factor in that attraction.

This season of RHOP is their best season

A lot of yall are not progressive a lot of yall are actually conservative asf… you have conservative beliefs and values but do not have the bandwidth to examine yourselves and acknowledge it.