David 🌹

I told you all that I will dedicate my page towards supporting a Peter Obi presidency. Whether he wins or not. And I am doing it for free. I like to identify my platform with people that are not known criminals. So if Peter Obi loses, I'll still not be ashamed. I am too educated and enlightened to be identifying myself with people of questionable character or wealth. And nobody can accuse me of taking monies to promote Peter Obi. If the EFCC or DSS likes, they should investigate me. They know who I am. Or they can easily track me, because no one is anonymous on the internet. My political stands is purely on merit and the need for Nigeria to grow in a more positive way. I am a full supporter of Peter Obi. If you don't like that, go to hell. End.

Let me explain it to you, in detail. Money closes the gap early because it stops the confusion before it even starts. When a man sleeps with a woman who is not his wife or girlfriend and gives her nothing, the whole thing stays vague. In her mind, she might start thinking, “He likes me,” or “This is the beginning of something,” or “I gave him my body free, so he should at least check on me, spend time with me, or do something for me later.” Even if she never says it out loud, that calculation is happening quietly. Some women will not ask for money, but they will expect attention, emotional support, or some kind of future benefit. When those things don’t come, resentment builds. Money cuts that off at the root. The moment you give her something after (or even before), the arrangement becomes clear to both of you: this is not a relationship, this is not “we are just vibing,” this is an exchange. She got money (or something of value), you got sex. The account is settled. There is less room for her to later tell herself or other people that she “did it from her heart” and you used her. There is also less room for you to pretend you don’t owe her anything while still enjoying the benefits. It also reduces the chance of drama later. A woman who was paid (directly or indirectly) is less likely to start calling nonstop, posting cryptic messages, or trying to involve other people when things cool off. The transaction is finished. You respect her privacy, she takes the money, and both of you can move on without unpaid emotional debt hanging over the situation. In short, money makes the intention plain from the beginning so that nobody is left guessing or calculating. Without it, many of these situations slowly turn into something messier than either person planned. That is what “closes the gap early” means.

On my post of yesterday evening, all I was saying is one simple thing: If you sleep with a woman who is not your wife or your girlfriend, give her money. Directly or indirectly. Prostitute or not. Then shut up about it and respect her privacy. No long grammar. No “we are just friends.” No pretending it was pure love and vibes. Why? Because that sex is not free. She gave you access to her body. In return, you give her something that has value. You could say that you also gave her access to yuur body, but that's just semantics. Reality is different. Money is the clearest way to do that without confusing anybody. When you don’t give anything, many women (not all, but enough) start calculating. They start expecting calls, attention, status, or more. Some even get bitter later and talk. The money closes that gap early. It makes the arrangement clear: this is what it is. No emotional debt hanging over your head. Even if she says “I don’t want money” or “it was from my heart,” still find a way to give her something. Buy something useful, send money for her transport or data, whatever. The point is to remove the “I did it for free” story from her mind. Because later, if things go sour, free sex is what some people use to blackmail or drag your name. Money + privacy reduces that risk. Also, many men think they are smart by sleeping around without spending. In reality, they are the ones who end up stressed. She starts acting like your girlfriend without the title, or she feels used and starts drama. The ones who give small money and move clean usually have less headache. They don’t owe explanations. They don’t keep checking if she is angry. The transaction is finished. I also added “respect her privacy” for a reason. Don’t go and tell your boys details. Don’t screenshot. Don’t use the fact that you paid as a weapon later. Once you give the money, leave it there. That is how you protect yourself too. In short: if she is not your woman, don’t take free sex from her and then act surprised when problems show. Pay something, keep quiet, and move. That is the practical way many men who have been in the game avoid unnecessary wahala. End.

I want to delete this community. I have not posted there for months and I do not think it's still needed. I no longer monitor what goes on there, and it seems all sorts of people go there to post what they like. About time?