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DAYGAME: Getting Started > 10 approach per day everyday for a beginner is good? Approaching is key, yes. As for a plan, this part is important: -- If you make a promise to yourself, you have to keep it Men keep to their commitments. Boys and losers do not. So get this part right. If you commit to 10 a day, that is lot of approaching. Do you mean every day? 300 approaches a month? (For how long?) That is probably too much. A SENSIBLE COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF: -- 100 approaches in 30 days That, is probably a better goal. Most guys can't do that, don't practice enough, don't meet enough women, don't uncover enough good experiences to learn or to want to keep going. But, if you do 100 IN 30 DAYS, that is enough to really learn some things. Yes, do it. If you can do more, great. But at 100 PER MONTH, especially (and only) if you keep it up month after month, you will learn some things. You'll almost definitely get some dates. If you're out offering value, you'll probably get laid. That is all good stuff. Do it. Keep a BIGGER PICTURE in mind: What kind of COMMITMENT can you make TO YOURSELF, that you can keep? This^ may be a bigger, better question than "how many approaches." You can reuse that same question again and again across your life. For now, focus on approaches, do it, good idea. For some guys, that can begin to see that "HOW YOU DO ANYTHING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING," all this daygame/game/pickup CAN BE a reflection of who you are as a man, at your character. So... do 100 APPROACHES FOR ONE MONTH. Start there. Meet that commitment. Doesn't even matter how those approaches go. #1 thing is that you can keep your commitments to yourself - this becomes a DEMONSTRATION OF VALUE. (It also becomes FUEL you can use on days when you "don't feel like it." Most men cannot actually do what they say they are going to do. Start there, with that idea: "I am the kind of man that does what he says he's going to do." == Some PERSONAL EXAMPLES: teapawt.org/DaysOfGame_com/status/… teapawt.org/DaysOfGame_com/status/… teapawt.org/DaysOfGame_com/status/… teapawt.org/DaysOfGame_com/status/… In these threads, I am showing you I am that kind of man. And this is true across my WHOLE LIFE, in everything I do. If you become that kind of man, you will be genuinely more HIGH VALUE, and you will have PROOF you can trust yourself - from there, it's easier to get others, and chicks, to trust you. <-- this is a BASIS for why you are dateable. SMALL GOAL: Make a promise you can keep SMALL GOAL: Keep that promise SMALL GOAL: Talk to 100 girls in 30 days BIG GOAL: Be a man that does what he says he will do This is f'n dynamite in a man's life, because you're starting to see DAYGAME and GAME within a greater context, within a larger structure of becoming a man worth dating. See it all that way. I am giving you the keys to understanding all this at a much higher level. Chasing girls is great. Do it. Daygame is great. Do it. Do it all... as a toolset WITHIN your goals of becoming a GENUINELY HIGH VALUE MAN, of LEARNING TO TRUST YOURSELF... and then those girls will have a real, healthy reason to date you. You will have real, healthy reasons to TRUST YOURSELF... and your Game can begin to take off. Go Talk to Girls (c).

IF YOU WANT TO LEARN/WIN, you actively BLOCK OUT the opinions of the "avg." "The % who don't understand Is higher than the % who do. Check yourself, what percentage is you?" -- JayZ We *only* listen to the POV of the winners. All day, only that. Proven winners, &get on that path.

> West is only good for I have heard all this a lot. These days, I am only interested in the opinions of guys that "can do it." Q: Local guy can't get laid in the West? Of course local guys are doing great. Getting laid... and they know that Western girls never stopped f'n.

I DID IT TOO: I would drop any girls I had in the US, set up in Japan, build up a rotation, drop all those girls, head back to the US, start a new round there, repeat. Foolish. Not just girls, but everything was stop/start. It is NOT a good plan. It will stunt/curb your growth.

> What if *what you wanted* was attractive? Guys will struggle to get girls, or will end up with busted, unhealthy girls ("fat"/"slut"/"feminist"/"old"/"bipolar") but will never see how wanting everything to be "cheap" and "easy" and "fast" are all demands of LOW VALUE MEN. The best men want more than that. They actually (without anyone making them do it) get up everyday asking for more out of life than that. And THE BEST MEN get the best girls (hot, yeah, but healthy, sweet, sunny, feminine). They start off with better, healthier girls, they put in more effort (every day), and they build better relationships than men that want everything to be "easy" and "cheap." Most guys "want to get paid," and fantasize about "lotsa money" and "hot chicks," but... again and again, their plan is whatever is "easier" and "cheaper" and "faster." But that is not how you really "get paid." The longer I look at Game the more the "paths of the Naturals" make sense. You don't have to "start off as a Natural," but you have get started on that kind of path - if you want bigger rewards. You *should* want the big rewards. Big rewards are better. The Captain of the Sports team. He is not only a real athlete, but a leader of athletes. There is nothing cheap and easy about his physical condition or his role, but... that guy "gets paid" by life. You don't even have to be "captain," most of the guys on the team get laid/paid. They are special. They work. It all took time, and effort, and practice, but they can really get the job done. Nothing about them is "easy" or "cheap." For guys that are learning Game, all of this still applies. Whatever you *do* is essential. Some life worth living, some project or goal worth pursuing - that is WHY any girl would ever want to date you. Q: Why would an attractive girls want to date you? GAME becomes a way to INVITE girls into that life you're building. As the life you're building gets objectively better each year, through your effort, you have more to offer, and it gets "easier" to attract quality women into that life. Even if you wanted it to be "easy," it would be "easier" if you actually had anything to offer. And you would be a genuinely better man if you did. F' "easy." That is low value ask. For the most "successful" way to get good with girls, you learn some Game (yes), but you pursue and develop and build meaningful things. Play the sport, join a band, kill it in your job, start a company, or a club, host a party, learn to cook. Do it for a long time, so you're actually good at it. And then, practice Game, and use your skill in Game to invite high quality girls into that world you're building. Every actually COOL GUY has done exactly this, since the beginning of time. You can tell a guy hasn't figured this out when he asks "What should I talk about on dates?" A COOL GUY talks about *his life* on dates, because it's a cool life - he has something to bring a girl into. The "bigger" his plans and goals, the more he has to say... the more genuinely attractive he is. Most guys don't get this, and that is why they are not dateable. For guys that DO get, here is a SUPER BONUS POINT: If you're real man, building something in your life that is real and worth your time, YOU WILL NEED HELP. Part of what dating is, part of what building a relationship is, is getting the girls in your life to HELP YOU BUILD YOUR THING. You will need help... and you can learn to get the girls/wife to help you. And what you're building is great, so she has a real reason to want to help you. They get to feel good as they are a part of what you're building. All of this makes you better, makes your thing better, makes the rel better. When you look at the best men in history (I'm not talking about "rich" or "famous," just significant men in their communities) they were ALL doing this kind of stuff. Go get to work.