ForMenSake

Today I have put the stops on Formensake.com The idea from the beginning was simple, a place for men to find adequate support for what ever stage they were in life. The project has set me back near £2000, from building the website, webflow no code apps to the monthly hosting charge. I didn't make a single penny from this and honestly I have no regrets. But now the costs are too much for me and I don't seem to have the energy I once did. From early 2024 when I had the idea of ForMenSake until now November 2025 the issues surrounding men are still there and I am struggling to see if things have gotten any better. For me, the experience of helping men is like finding someone with a broken leg, you shout out hoping someone will help but no one does. They stand for a moment or two and say how its a terrible thing and then go on their way. I hope the website and this X page brought some positive impact to men who are struggling in this world. Thanks to @FarzaTV for pushing me through @_buildspace to make this idea into a reality. Thank you to those who followed me. Perhaps one day I will revive the website, but for now it is goodbye.

Loneliness can push us to find belonging in unexpected ways. The drive to feel part of something is one of our most basic human needs.

Male loneliness isn't something to be scoffed at. Men are becoming increasingly isolated, and with it comes a cost to their health. What does male loneliness really look like beyond the noise?: formensake.com/blog/what-doe…

Men's rights activists have either experienced or witnessed serious issues negatively impacting men, and they want to seek solutions. Feminism has been a monumental movement advancing women's rights, and it's clear this has also affected men in various ways. One would hope the UN of all organisations would understand that male issues are real, that male activism is a valid cause, and not simply an excuse to blame feminism..

Ever since working on ForMenSake, I've had to step back multiple times. There's a whole lot of hurting in the male world. What's worse is how little people care and how there's little appetite for sustained change. I won't be giving up anytime soon, but this is by no means easy.

There is nothing wrong with genders mixing, but when something is as explicit as "Men in Sheds", a level of respect is warranted. Sad to see that respect tarnished by putting "pressure" and forcing change to a group which aims to help men.

This may or may not be true, but there is no doubt many eldest sons take on the burden of high expectations and de facto care taker of the family. Interested to hear others thoughts on this..

"Sextortion" is on the rise with criminals increasingly targeting young boys for blackmail. Learn how to protect yourself and your family with these crucial guidelines from the @NCA_UK: nationalcrimeagency.gov.uk/w…

As #Ai image generation become more accessible, a predatory industry emerges: Ai models/personas targeting men. This isn't a gold rush, this is another attempt to exploit male loneliness. Find out how this scheme works and advertised: formensake.com/blog/are-ai-m…

"We need a male-centered approach" resonates strongly. Many men avoid therapy because they want to solve problems themselves. Effective support doesn't pathologise men or dictate solutions, it empowers them with resources that respect their autonomy. Supporting men means equipping them to overcome challenges on their own terms and not by telling them they're broken.

The depths of pain this man will feel will likely be unreconcilable. Having fatherhood torn away from you by the person you love is a cruelty at the highest degree.

False accusations can destroy a man's life even before a judge hears the case. Our new article provides guidance on what to do if you find yourself facing this nightmare situation: formensake.com/blog/false-ac…

Statistics about male issues including male suicide fail to express the realities around the men who suffer. Phillip Herron is one heartbreaking example. How many others are suffering in silence?