How to manipulate someone into believing nonsense. I will switch roles for better understanding. Woman: “You always expect me to pay for everything.” Man: “It is because I love you so much, I want to make sure you are not after my money.” The trick is to make your lack of interest be addressed and filled up by your target’s interest for you using a supposed valid concern for them to be empathetic, whilst you enjoy the (platonic) ride. That produces three psychological effects: Moral inversion => Your unwillingness to contribute becomes a sign of emotional sincerity rather than a potential lack of investment. Burden reversal => Instead of you having to justify your behaviour, she must demonstrate that her intentions are genuine. Empathy exploitation => If she accepts your explanation, she will feel compelled to accommodate you precisely because she believes you are protecting yourself from being exploited. The most effective rationalisation convinces the other person that compensating for that lack of investment is proof of their own virtue. Goes to show the more audacious the lie the more you select for the person you will get away with murder. Which is perfect when women make the shift from the man who she won’t leave alone to the one who will never leave her.

The only thing she is avoiding is admitting to him she cheated.

A Heartbreak works even faster than Ozempic for weight loss.

Funny how 20 years ago french people were taking the piss out of Sarkozy (former French President) for his height insecurity using special shoes to address it. And now it is gonna go mainstream.

“He is my best friend” “I would grow to enjoy sex [more]” When she says this => cooked. You can choose to be her bitch or she can choose to be yours. It is less about technique than essence and the dynamic underneath the relation.

If you think it can’t get worse

My friend who went from nice guy to game guy was telling me this: “You can’t UNSEE the treatment, cooperation - light and sexual openness that women give you when they see that you “get it” and are high interest You also can’t UNSEE how repulsed, irritable, cunning, ungraceful they can be back when you were a cringe simp It becomes a paradoxical crisis. As you’ve now seen 2 extremities and have a hard time ID’ing for the medium ground as that’s what blossoms healthy relationships Like the high interest girl starts pulling back in fear of losing control and getting attached too soon but it triggers your emotional muscle memory from when a girl bounced on you for being a pussy with no charm or edge. You are now sandwiched. Cause just how the old Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks was the default strategy for most women pre-2020 Your default strategy is Alpha Up-front, BF on the back end but this strategy becomes ineffective due to your now hypersensitive EQ and the general landscape on post-2020 won’t drive her into your arms.” What I shared with him is that obvious positioning has its pros and cons - now it is less about upfront signalling but lowkey signalling. You don’t have to come thumping your chest, but you must not leak weakness either, whilst still providing value so that she has reason to still engage with you.

If you want to hear what goes through the mind of the typical neurotic Gen Z woman you have got it here. You have two choices: 1) Assume the worst of people and see it confirmed. Confirmation bias through lack of social skills and blame shifting through lack of discernment rather than thanks to it. Like Gen Z guys who overconsume content but have no scars and speak from borrowed experience. 2) Assume the best of people - sometimes they will prove you wrong - but the time they won’t you will have a great interaction, experience and who knows potentially more.

There is so much to pick on in this video where both sides have their valid annoyances and respective failure mode but it is really a great representation of modern dating.

Cole Palmer been there.

When labour returns are getting dwarfed by capital returns on a long enough timeline => this is what happens. Negative reflexivity: => Create poor economic conditions for family creation that people are disincentivised in having any (YOLO - “fuck I have to gamble my way out of it) => To keep the Ponzi going on the capital front - invite foreign money that compete against domestic one for domestic goods (e.g. housing) => Inherited Capital > Earned income => To keep Labour competitive (translation: cheap) - invite immigrants that can perform the job locals can for a fraction of it - creating racism/xenophobia - dividing to better reign Solutions: - Become creative with money (where to invest), with career/entrepreneurial strategy so that you become better equipped to avoid the losing game of surviving through trading your time for money, and using globalisation (where you decide to live, internationalising your revenue sources) to your benefit.

If you want to make the RP mainstream use a pretty woman on IG.

Now turn the same logic between glasses and holes and you will understand men even better. Thirst cares of no shape.

“The dildo of consequences does not come with any lube” Mark Goldbridge

Guys are sold through convenience.