Mizel💞

Use to be my fav man🫩😮‍💨

I just realized what a typical day looks like for this man and I Woke up quite late today around 11am, man was already up cause he woke up to feed our child and resumed work.. Then moment I woke up, man said “let’s clean the house” I swept and arranged the house whilst he was arranging our third room… Our baby woke up.. While he was mopping, I held her… We then proceeded to force feed her Whilst I was making meals, he was bathing her.. Finished eating, he cleaned up… Everyone minded their business whilst taking turns to hold our small madam Evening, I went to the gym, he was with our baby Night food, everyone sorted themselves, I bathed our small madam cause partner bathed her in the morning Now I am watching movie He’s with our child, playing game Till we are ready to sleep The funny thing is, we don’t expressly give each other chores, we just see what needs to be done and do it, as one person is doing one thing, the other has taken up another thing This way, our work moves easier, and faster There’s no load in a single person When people come and start trying to dictate in terms of “Gender role” I just snap with “we don’t do that here” This is how our home is run.. Families have kukuma accepted it with “New age marriage “🤣😭

How are people comfortable speaking about their family in this manner!!! It can be frustrating to come from a not so well off family, it might mean you’d have to work 10 times harder but what’s done is done.. Now it’s up to you to break the cycle, but honestly, life don’t work this way You might do everything and not still end up wealthy, maybe the you’d understand your parents better

I make my own hair oil and spray.. Few months back, a hairstylist chopped off all my front hair, it was so bad Used the infused oil few times a week and now all my edges are back, fuller and better… You can make it with homemade ingredients

Prime example of the situation, the moment you open the gate, taking out the utility car was so hard Now, thanks to my dad, Reversing is smalls for me😮‍💨

Long time no gym, anyways Day 26😮‍💨

Except it’s skit but how do you say this about a person you are married to????? For online consumption for that matter, publicly ridiculing your partner It is well

This man and I really came together to create this Gorgeous Tiny human thats about to take our lives with her hyper active energy 🥺🥺🥺 Just imagining we had 2 of this hyper active goodness😫😫😫 I am not even complaining “ a hyperactive baby is way better than a crying one” No rest but I adore this Gorgeous human😭😮‍💨

Learning how to Reverse was the last thing I learnt Prior, I hated reversing, I just knew how to drive straight😭😭😭 My dad made me learn the hard way.. In my dads place, a total of 4 cars was in in the compound A bus, 2 Saloon cars and 1 hilux The hilux was the last car parked (manual) Our utility vehicle was parked right beside the hilux Each time I’d want to go out, my dad will help me bring out my car, this went on for weeks until he said No, you’d have to do it yourself First day of trial, he stood and directed me as best as I could, it was so tight, and difficult, I started crying, I did not go out again Second time we continued, and he made sure I used both side mirrors and rear without having to look back I was so frustrated The hilux was literally so close to the gate, my dad refused to move it, so I’d have to try to remove the car without having to scratch both cars as well as the gate I’d literally be so close to each cars, it was hard I stopped trying, if I want to go out and the hilux is parked, I’d rather enter bus My dad didn’t even flinch, he said “When you are ready, I’d be here” Finally, I became open to learning, tried for a few more days till i finally got it, then continued trying with no supervision The happiest day of my life Currently, I don’t even have to look back, my mirrors serves me well, and I do love reversing

Igbo leaders are the worst set of individuals… And we used to have pride

Since I gave birth to my child, I never have to hesitate when I want to go out As long as her dad is at home, irregardless of whether he’s working or not, he’d be with her If he’s to go out, he doesn’t have to carry her cause I’d be there I’ve never had to back my child, or bother about her as long as my partner is present… Never have to take her to the market, or back her inside public transport etc I don’t even think too much when I announce I am going out Each time I am out, I get asked “what if your child” who’s looking after her??? You people underestimate the competence and intentionality of my partner man🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️ Being a parent has really been an easy ride because of my choice of partner They are always together it doesn’t matter if he’s working or not, she’s glued to his side and I love eet so much

It just shows his level of exposure, a very ignorant, individual that has refused to grow out of his stupidity 2026 with all the information, these is how a nonentity chooses to reason😭 This is why when it comes to discussions that requires intellectual input you can never find his kind there because his brain is unable to reason beyond this capacity Pitiful

My next buy😫😫

I love my marriage so much…. Before marriage I already emphasized how it was going to be Before I met this man, I already had a strict standard that I wasn’t willing to bend… Met him and he ticked all the important boxes… Money has always been a secondary factor to me so it didn’t matter at that time… Ended up doing 4 years and it was one of Ease, cause honestly I use to think relationships was stressful He never faltered in his efforts… Married and his actions have remained constant.. Even when people ask “any difference now” No, it’s like he prepped for this moment, our child came in and it’s still been one of ease for me.. We run a partnership union…. We are transparent about any and everything Every penny he receives and spends, I am made aware of and vice versa His pins, passwords for investments, bank even phone I am aware of his, he only know s how to unlock my phone but man never puts eyes on my finances… We see what needs to be done and do it… If I can afford to do something for our home, I do it without even thinking twice Every decision made is mentioned before conclusion If you call my husband for anything, even money, or purchases, you’d hear “let me call you back, or I’d get back to you” This is so he’d talk to me about it.. If my partner is suppose to go left, on the road he decided to turn right, he’d call me to let me know We are literally dependent on each other when it comes to making decisions We carry each other along Domestic work is done together There’s no head or tail in my home, Respect is mutual and we constantly do things to ease the life of one another It’s really been a smooth ride

Those kids should not be washed for at least a week🥺🥺

Having a girl child is scary… Each time I look at my tiny human, there’s this constant fear, wondering how I am going to protect her from being - Taking advantage of - Groomed - Physical, emotional, mental, Sexual assault or abuse - Ending up with the wrong person - Predators / Pedophile - Leeches Constantly thinking of the kind of advice to give, constant eagle watching her just to protect her from any form of harm, knowing how cruel the outside world is and how terrible humans are The chance of her not experiencing any of the above is also there of which I hope and pray she never experience any… It’s just scary to imagine my precious human being hurt.. It bothers me soo much

One of the few things I’d be emphasizing on / teaching my child is Self awareness and Self Love Because when you truly know yourself and love yourself, a lot of anyhowness will never be tolerated Also reminding her that her life, actions and decisions should never be done in a bid to be “Picked “ for marriage Letting her know that I and her father did not bring her into this world to be Subservient to any Man born of a woman Making her understand that “marriage “ isn’t the basis / reason for her existence, meaning she can choose to want it, not to, and walk out of without having to think twice I’d be teaching her to always prioritize herself, put herself first and never shrink herself first any man If she’s ever to end up with anyone, it’d be someone who’d love and respect her as much as she does him, it’d be one of partnership and most certainly not with a poor person from poor home with serious esteem issues… She’d learn to always aim high, be ambitious and to never let anyone, including a man dictate to her what her life choices should look like… Teaching her that only she and sh alone have a say on whatever happens to her body, her life is in God’s hands and hers alone She’d be self sufficient, I’d teach her to value herself above anyone else, I will build her confidence level and esteem I’d try my possible best to equip her with every and any information that’d help guide her and help her make informed decisions.. God help me man

This new trend of men creating an X account, using women as their display picture and then tweeting in ways that enables misogyny and patriarchy is very dangerous So you cannot tweet your thoughts on your own account, you have to pretend to be a woman to be taken seriously ????

Not one comment on the husband assault, to this bird it’s justified because he “married her” So if he makes food will he die, Abi he’s incapacitated?? You’d be fighting against men with these type of silly thoughts and still have to fight against male centered women