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Think Better, Live Better is out in the world!
Hi everyone
Hot on the heels of Think Well Corner, I’m excited to share Integro’s new flagship workshop: Think Better, Live Better.
This two-hour, in-person workshop makes its debut on Saturday 14 November, from 10am to 12pm at Wellington Central Library - facilitated by yours truly.
What to expect
This is an interactive, conversational workshop, not a lecture. Expect real examples, honest discussion, a bit of laughter (hopefully) and moments of reflection.
Every participant will receive a personal workbook to use during the session and take home. You’ll leave with something practical in your hands, not just in your head.
By the end of the two hours, you’ll have a complete inner toolkit, and one commitment to yourself about how you’ll use it.
To celebrate the launch, tickets are just $75.00, so why not take a look? I’d love to see you there!
Take care, and I wish you good thinking.
Janine
Find out more and book your place:
eventbrite.co.nz/e/200317863…
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When I first started Integro many moons ago - bright-eyed and bushy-tailed - I surveyed my long-suffering friends and colleagues about the personal development topics that interested them most.
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Getting smart about difficult people
We’ve all met them: the colleague who pushes our buttons, the person who always has something negative to say, or someone who somehow turns an ordinary interaction into a difficult one.
While we can’t always change how other people behave, we can become much smarter about how we think about them, how we respond, and how much energy we give them.
Join us for a practical, down-to-earth session exploring simple ways to deal with difficult people more effectively.
We’ll turn the question around, too: What if I’m the difficult person? A little self-awareness can go a long way! Expect practical examples, useful ideas, and plenty of opportunity for discussion.
Saturday, 28 November | 11 am–12 pm Wellington Central Library | Hui 4
Book or enquire: 0800 BE OPEN | [email protected] | Eventbrite
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