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This account contains posts which might be triggering (sexual assault, DV and such). Reader discretion advised. Agnostic. Living with Cptsd.

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Joined July 2023
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Compilation of my threads:
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You have it wrong.
I actually consider BPD to be closer to OCD than to c-PTSD. Both are disorders that have you caught in a loop over very hyper specific fears. Speaking as someone who is actually diagnosed with both disorders.
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The meltdown is amazing lol
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Hinduism is going to be the end of us all - Toh jaa kar Afghanistan ya Pakistan mey reh le, Sikhism is flourishing there. Or go to your favourite Kanedda or UK. Your parents gave food to someone and that small thing will be the end of Sikhism?
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Oh lord my parents got coerced into giving into casteist demands for food for a recent diwali thing. For Hindus it's Diwali, for Sikhs it's Bandhi chod diwas.. Hinduism is going to be end of us all I am agnostic thou. I just like good food & good vibe.
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Kya karu itne gusse ka ?
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Simran Kaur retweeted
Either Saurav Das lectures people about rethinking their strategy instead of blaming others for their detention (only to get detained himself later when all of us stood up and spoke out in his support). Abhijeet lectures the Opposition for not protesting while he himself fails to show up when it matters. Their own CJP volunteers dismiss accusations of female harassment within their circles with a casual "mahaul ka mood kharab mat karo", they call the police "kuchu puchu" only to later say they regret it and this lame tweet which you see below. And through all of this, they constantly pretend to be Gen Z larping as some edgy, internet-native political movement which is honestly becoming painfully cringe. "hAtErS gOnNa hAtE, yOu dO yOu" please send this to your CJP WhatsApp group instead of posting it here💔🥀
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Gosh I am surrounded by casteists. So exhausting I tell you.
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You can support someone and still criticise them when they're wrong. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
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I made a post in support of BPD & it didn't do that well. But still 2-3 men came out against my post & in a weird way too, unauthentic kind. It's majorly women who are diagnosed with BPD. BPD is the hysteria diagnosis of our times.
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Diagnose a woman with BPD, subtly trigger her to the points she lashes out. & Then blame her for her reaction to your abuse. Honestly it happens to everyone, marginalised folks more thou.
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You have your things wrong . You think simply learning would lead to action ? It doesn't happen. People learn & still don't act. Their theory never turns into practise.
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Maybe I misread you, because what I answered is ‘when people learn about other’s motivations, does this increase (not decrease) the specificity or depth of their empathy’. So I’m afraid there is some kind of disconnect here.
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Yeah and additionally if you have CPTSD, you're female and neurodivergent they tell you that you have BPD, within ten minutes of meeting you, but they take years for an autism assessment—make it make sense.
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CPTSD often goes undiagnosed because it doesn’t announce itself as trauma. It just looks like personality. PTSD is tied to a specific event. CPTSD is what happens when you spend years trapped in an environment you couldn’t leave, usually during the years that shape who you become. The trauma doesn’t stay separate. It threads itself into the person you think you are.
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Do you think understanding someone's motivation leads to people considering those emotions ? People who have high cognitive empathy understand pain but coz of low emotional they don't feel the pain & so don't do anything to decrease the said pain. But they do learn how others
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Kinda…? Emotional/affective empathy is, I think better described as porousness, that is being affected by emotions of others, whereas people generally understand empathy as the capacity to understand others as separate, complete people with their own motivations, …
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work & use it against them. Now in BPD, People feel the pain & don't understand it. & Do whatever the fck they can to not make it hurt. Some times it can be good, sometimes bad. So BPD folks aren't inherently evil. Unlike psycopaths.
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I hate all the BPD hatred I come across here. People with BPD are most times just traumise Individual's who can improve with help. Now sucessful psychpaths are what you need to worry about. Also BPD people might abuse, so does anyone & everyone else.
Bpd can be used against you by actual abusers by reversing the victim and offender. It’ll be easier for an abuser to convince you *and others that actually, it’s YOU that’s the problem. It’s DARVO, it’s distorting your judgment and making you out as the villain for having bpd
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Alcoholics abuse, patriarchal people w/o a disorder abuse. People abuse for a N number of reasons. Stigmatising BPD like this is just enabling abuse. Coz predator might use this excuse against a person W/ BPD
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Provoke the person W/ BPD & they aren't able to regulate anymore & lash out. The predator gets to act victim coz the person W/ BPD acted out. Lil do they know that the predator knowingly caused the lash out.
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Also so many people with BPD are wrongly diagnosed. They might be dealing with Cptsd. Practitioner often make wrong diagnosis as they aren't well versed w/ trauma & it's effect. & No, having BPD doesn't automatically make someone bad. People with BPD do have empathy.
Most people with BPD are abused not abusers. So many of you cunts are doing worse shit to us than anything anyone with BPD has ever done. "Manipulator Disorder" right its not like I literally have to cry every time I ask for something as simple as a hug you people are monsters
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High emotional empathy & impaired cognitive empathy. Whereas if you look at Narcissistic personality disorder They have impaired emotional empathy & high cognitive empathy. ( This one is dangerous) Read up online on these. The keywords I used should be enough.
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Hello @CPDelhi! Just a month or so back, you guys were yapping about 163, inconvenience, discipline when your uniformed (and without uniform) goons beat innocent kids. And today your own men protest? With or without permission? Why aren’t they beaten with rods with nails? वो स्पेशल सैल के गुंडे ले आओ।
#Delhi: दिल्ली पुलिस के एसीपी मनस्वी वशिष्ठ समेत कई पुलिसकर्मी @CPDelhi से हुई बातचीत के बाद भी नहीं हैं संतुष्ट। कई पुलिसकर्मी घर लौट गए हैं, लेकिन कुछ सड़क पर धरने पर बैठ गए हैं।
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