Players: If you want to lead your team you will have to hold some of your best friends accountable. That isn’t always easy. The best leaders lead by example and look after their teammates on the court, academically, socially, in the weight room, and in the community. Leading is not a part-time gig. It’s a full-time job with overtime required. Leaders never punch out; they are always on the clock. Leaders can’t be selected by coaches. They rise to the position through consistent action and mentality. Some parts of leadership are fun such as helping teammates who need assistance and being the person who helps make decisions. There is glory in leadership. However, many parts of leadership are difficult, such as calling up those who aren’t bringing 100% effort, managing conflict, and holding others accountable while also performing at maximum focus and effort every day. Imagine trying to lead your teammates when you show up late, are inconsistent in your effort, or if you have a bad attitude. It isn’t possible. However, once you get your habits, mind, and work ethic in consistent order then you’ve opened up the door to help others get there too. The most difficult part of establishing yourself as a leader is showing everyone else that you are the example, that you are the standard. It requires a relentless level of daily effort. Leaders aren’t perfect; they are flawed just like everyone else. However they bounce back faster than others, they never waver in their effort, and they take responsibility. Leaders own their mistakes and they are elite at turning the page while learning along the way. Leaders partner with the coaching staff to ensure the program runs at maximum capacity. A coach-led team will never win a championship. A player-led team is a dangerous team that can overcome anything and reach maximum potential.

Rules for a great athletic experience: 1. Love your teammates 2. Focus on what you can control 3. Work as hard as possible 4. Make it about the team 5. Embrace who you are 6. Use it as a vehicle for lifelong success 7. Expect adversity 8. Build your network and reputation 9. Earn as many W’s and championships as possible