The reason that some ppl were able to slander you so bad after the connection ended is bc nobody knew you personally enough to defend you. You’re very secluded and exclusive w your energy. The way you love and show up for ppl is apart of your nature so much so that you never brag on what you do for others- you just do it. So , when ppl said you were a burden, selfish, or not who you “portray” yourself to be- it was easy to believe bc ppl were already looking for a reason to discredit you bc they see you as someone who’s so polished that A LOT of ppl already think you’re “too good to be true”.