Senior Marketing Executive at BBC Industrials Company| Sports Marketing | Personal Brand Development | Academic Research | Agribusiness | West Africa (Ghana)
Accra, Ghana
Joined December 2013
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Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
How to Choose a Life Partner:
1. Character: Watch how they treat people who can't help them.
2. Values: Check whether you agree on money, family and honesty.
3. Conflict: See how they behave when they're angry.
4. Growth: Notice if they're willing to change and learn.
5. Kindness: Observe how they speak about their exes.
6. Peace: Ask whether you feel calm or anxious around them.
7. Communication: Notice whether they talk through problems or go silent.
8. Respect: Watch how they treat your family, friends and opinions.
9. Responsibility: See how they handle money, work and commitments.
10. Humor: Check if you can laugh together, even on bad days.
11. Support: Observe whether they cheer for your dreams or shrink them.
12. Honesty: Notice if their words and actions stay the same when no one is watching.
13. Vision: Ask whether you want the same things in the next 10 years, such as home, children and lifestyle.
14. Trust: Pay attention to whether they make you feel safe or doubtful.
15. Effort: See if they keep trying when things get hard.
16. Independence: Notice if they respect your space, goals and individuality.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
There are two types of women who can never love you, no matter how much they pretend:
1.A woman who hardly ever says sorry.
2.A woman who doesn't accept or listen to correction. She always claims to be right in everything she does. You can't correct her.
A woman like this will struggle to build a healthy relationship, because real love requires humility, accountability, and the willingness to grow together.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
The most dangerous man to a woman is not the man who doesn’t love her. It’s the man who loves her deeply but isn’t afraid to lose her.
He won’t beg, bargain, compete for attention, tolerate disrespect, or abandon his self-respect just to keep access to her.
He can want you with every fibre of his being and still walk away. That’s the difference between a man who loves you and a man who needs you to validate his existence.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
i don't care how much chemistry we have. if i have to keep guessing whether you actually want me, competing for your attention or wondering where i stand every other week, i'm going to get tired. attraction alone cannot carry a relationship.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
All of you always want this but only a few reciprocate. Most of you offer nothing to your partners, you believe your beauty alone is enough you take sex out & you’d see most have nothing to offer. You don’t create an avenue to be liked, it’s always your man has to do this & that for you. Never what can I also do. Funny enough the women who experience men like these always treat them bad & they are all their exs. The quotes even confirm it. You people ask for men like this just to feel good but in reality you don’t. You can do all this for her & she will still leave
i like a man who actually LIKES me. not just a man who wants to sleep with me, claim me, or keep me from dealing with somebody else. i’m talking about a man who genuinely enjoys my company, wants to hear my voice, remembers the little things i tell him, and makes plans with me without me having to beg. because some men will swear up and down they love you but act like spending time with you is a chore. baby i don’t want to be somebody’s responsibility, i want to be somebody’s FAVORITE person.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
One of the most obvious reasons to leave a woman is when she constantly argues, holds back or refuses to contribute to the relationship.
Whether financially or through acts of service, especially when it comes to things she also stands to benefit from.
But understand that it’s not about how much she contributes. It’s about whether she’s willing to contribute at all.
Her willingness to build with you tells you a lot. So does her refusal too.
This guy has been driving his babe to work every day for a while now because it's on the way to his own business.
Last week he asked her to contribute ₦30k for fuel because things are tight.
She said she doesn't have and she just collected her Ajo of ₦500k.
I told him, “No wahala, park the car. Let her take that ride for one week straight.”
Yesterday, she actually took a ride to work and spent ₦14k to get to work.
He actually went to work yesterday with the car, just that he left the house 2 hours later than usual.
She spent ₦14k to prove a point, and he got 2 extra hours of sleep. Some ladies just want to take and take, but don't want to contribute shishi. If ₦30k once in a while is too much, is ₦14k a day better?
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
Ladies, stop assuming sex is all a man wants, then offering nothing beyond it. A man can desire your body and still crave your mind, appreciate your character, value your companionship, and want your presence in his life. Let him experience the woman, not just the body.
How do i transfer my vote to his constituency
Under the John Dumelo Scholarship Scheme, the first batch of students have departed Ghana for Russia to further their studies on fully funded scholarships. Over 40 students are expected to benefit before the end of next year. #idey4u
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
The problem is that a lot of you want this without actually being likable. You’re not fun to be with outside of sex, you’ve built your entire identity around being attractive, and you’re incredibly entitled.
i like a man who actually LIKES me. not just a man who wants to sleep with me, claim me, or keep me from dealing with somebody else. i’m talking about a man who genuinely enjoys my company, wants to hear my voice, remembers the little things i tell him, and makes plans with me without me having to beg. because some men will swear up and down they love you but act like spending time with you is a chore. baby i don’t want to be somebody’s responsibility, i want to be somebody’s FAVORITE person.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
One thing I will not tolerate in this my grown age, is an adult who acts like actions don't have consequences.
Yes your actions caused this outcome, so why are you standing there shocked and playing victim card?
The minister for black stars no see am yet?
🚨BREAKING: Ghana’s Spintex Knights risk being stranded in Libya over an unsettled flight bill as funding remains unsecured.
#SportyFM
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
Respect your man while he is building. Everyone loves the finished product, but there is something powerful about the woman who believed when the money was tight, the plan was messy, and the results were invisible. Loyalty during the process hits different.
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
Dear women, let me tell you something.
Some of you will lose a good man because you are too busy chasing a better lifestyle.
You have a man who genuinely loves you, respects you, supports you in the little ways he can, and is trying to build a future for himself. But because he cannot afford the kind of lifestyle you see on social media, you start feeling like you deserve better.
If you leave a good man because he is building slowly, be careful that you don’t end up choosing a man who has money but lacks everything else you once prayed for.
We use time, money and resources to start a farm. You wake up everyday for a month to go harvest my produce. No notice, nothing.
If i take do you simple now, your family would appear at my house pleading...
Wugah Shaddrack Selali retweeted
That's the Bruno paradox, man.
He gives you everything you want on the stat sheet - 15 assists, 10 goals, 3 key passes a game, running 12km, pressing like a mad man.
But he also gives you the chaos you DON'T want when you want to WIN win. Serious teams that win leagues and Champions Leagues need control. Bruno is anti-control. Every pass is Hollywood, every loss of possession turns into a transition for the other team.
Look at Portugal, look at United post-Fergie. When the game gets tight, when you need someone to keep the ball for 5 minutes and kill the momentum? He can't do it. He'll try the 40-yard flick instead.
Madrid won with Modric/Kroos - controllers. City won with Rodri/Bernardo - controllers. Even Portugal 2016 won when Santos benched the flair and played Danilo + William Carvalho to just hold the middle.
Bruno is perfect for being the hero in a 3-2 win. He's not built for the 1-0 boring win that actually wins you titles.
You cant win Cups with Bruno. You can't build a dynasty around him in midfield.
