editing @NYT Op-ed. was @NBCDigital & host First Person podcast @foreignpolicy. //Paper Love: Searching for the Girl My Grandfather Left Behind @riverheadbooks

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Over our brutal cancer year, my daughter Orli has documented herself for TikTok. It is a flipbook of her treatment & recovery & setbacks, a primer on how a middle schooler fathoms the unfathomable, and how she created a bridge to the outside world. nytimes.com/2020/12/29/opini…
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In honor of Orli’s 16th birthday, please (re)read my friend ⁦@SarahAWildman⁩’s most beautiful essay …and look for the foxes and do the bucket lists. Be ‘here.’ nytimes.com/2024/03/14/opini… via @NYTOpinion
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“Everyone deserves the opportunity to sit with these questions at the end of life,” @SarahAWildman says in this episode of The Opinions. “It’s not impossible, but doing so requires us to recognize: It’s not sadness we should fear. It’s regret.” Listen: nyti.ms/4h1VnB3
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“I developed a working theory over the course of Orli’s treatment that the American ethos that hard work leads to success rendered facing death, let alone dying, incomprehensible” - by ⁦@SarahAWildman⁩ nytimes.com/2024/11/25/opini… via @NYTOpinion
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What if, when our daughter was dying, “we were presented with something other than relentless hope?” @SarahAWildman asks. “If we had been asked to really consider that Orli’s time on earth was limited, how would we have used that time?” Read: nyti.ms/4i512XL
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This wrenching piece was more than a year in the making. I hope it starts a conversation.
What if, when our daughter was dying, “we were presented with something other than relentless hope?” asks @SarahAWildman. “If we had been asked to really consider that Orli’s time on earth was limited, how would we have used that time?” Read: nyti.ms/494xkxQ
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In Opinion “In mourning, and in crisis, food is often an action, an act. It is typically how we meet the needs of those whose pain we cannot imagine, especially when we feel stymied by our limitations,” Sarah Wildman writes. nyti.ms/44UKwDz
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"I’ve come to see that, after loss, part of what fuels a person’s ability to keep living — and not just survive — is a continued engagement with curiosity." An amazing @SarahAWildman piece on Joan Nathan and also, I think, on life nytimes.com/2024/05/26/opini…
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What is necessary in grief is often the most basic, and the most difficult — consistency of presence,” writes @SarahAWildman. Read: nyti.ms/3V0tKyn
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.@davidfrum grants us the privilege of sharing his grief in this remarkable story of love that far surpasses our time on earth and the terrible pain of what the world lost when the family lost his daughter, Miranda.
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“A year is a strange and terrible marker of time, simultaneously endless and instant,” writes @SarahAWildman. “A year of loss is a new form of permanence: This is the life we lead. It will not change.” Read: nyti.ms/497BEuK
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“A year is a strange and terrible marker of time, simultaneously endless and instant,” writes @SarahAWildman. “A year of loss is a new form of permanence: This is the life we lead. It will not change.” Read: nyti.ms/49Idk3L
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<the key to seeing each other’s humanity is in somehow recognizing how universal the terrible ongoing nature of loss is, how human it makes us, how frail, how essential each day is, when none of us has any idea about the next.> @SarahAWildman nyti.ms/3GcKETp
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“The gratitude I’ll have this Thanksgiving will still come: from having had the chance to know this love, even in its pain,” writes @SarahAWildman of her first Thanksgiving after the death of her daughter. Read: nyti.ms/3G8DoYO
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