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Greetings from Cornelia Street in Vienna, where the Taylor Swift shows have been canceled — and it’s packed with people trading bracelets and singing songs.
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Want to win one of these? Proof copies have arrived for Witness 8. Eddie Flynn returns 1.8.2024 Retweet/repost and follow me to enter the giveaway. Don’t forget you can win Eddie Flynn merch when you preorder Witness 8 (see pinned post) #giveaway
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Today I heard from a parent that their son was terribly upset when he got covid, because it would ruin his 100% attendance record. At the end of the year, those with 100% get book tokens & certificates in assembly. She mentioned it in passing, she obviously didn’t think it was a big deal. It was just how school worked, and last year her son had got the award. Here’s why policies like that should stop. What’s the problem, you might think, with rewarding those who turn up day after day? Surely it’s just a nice little treat to recognise their commitment? And book tokens! How worthy. What’s the problem with free books for kids who take school seriously enough to make it in every day? As with all reward systems, however, we don’t think enough about those who don’t get the reward and the effect on them. Who are these kids? Well, it’s the children with serious illness - the mum then went on to tell me that one girl in his class has leukaemia, for example. Or the disabled child. Or the child with overwhelming anxiety. Or the child who became homeless with their mum due to domestic violence and has to go to the shelter in the night, and then doesn’t make it to school the next day. Or even the child whose dad died and who had a day off to attend the funeral. It’s the kids who find school most difficult and who have the most challenges who struggle to attend. What happens to them when everyone else goes up to get their book tokens? They sit in assembly watching, and they are punished. They are punished because the absence of a reward acts as a punishment for them. It’s a public punishment too, everyone knows that they didn’t make the grade. No free books for them. Tough. Whenever there are rewards, the flip side is punishment. When we reward one person, the others are punished by the absence. When we reward someone one year, and then not the next, that again the absence acts as a punishment. It makes them feel bad. Of course, we know this. We know that children feel bad when they don’t get something and others do. This is in fact pretty well how rewards are meant to work. They are meant to motivate. The idea is that children will try harder to get the reward. So what’s the problem? The problem is that 100% attendance isn’t about trying harder. It’s largely about luck, particularly at primary school. Luck not to get ill, luck to have a stable family, luck to be the kind of person who doesn’t find school overwhelmingly stressful. Luck to be the sort of person for whom life is a bit easier, in fact. Rewards for 100% attendance reward the lucky, and by doing so punish the unlucky. The lucky feel good and the unlucky feel bad. And that has other consequences. Because making those who find school attendance hard feel bad is very unlikely to make them more able to attend. They are already struggling, and now they’re being punished for it. It contributes to anxiety, because children are aware of the consequences of not getting 100%, and some of them will become really anxious about it. For others, it will contribute to their anger and their feelings that they aren’t valued as much as others. So yes, the proud children up the front of assembly can’t see a problem, and their parents think it’s ‘just a nice gesture’, but it’s so easy to ignore the effect on the least advantaged. We celebrate the winners and the losers are invisible, shamed into silence. The winners assume that the losers deserved to lose - they say that they worked hard for their awards, and the losers couldn’t be bothered to get out of bed and so why should they get book tokens? This happens again and again in our education system, and that’s why I keep on banging this drum. Every intervention should be evaluated for its impact on losers as well as winners. It’s not enough to pretend they could all be winners if they just tried hard enough. Sometimes people tell me that the attendance awards helped them learn that everyone is good at different things, because whilst they didn’t get attendance awards, they did well at other things and got awards for music or creative writing. Which is nice for them, but again, let’s think about the losers. For it’s not true that in a school context everyone is good at something. It’s not true that everyone gets awards somewhere. Some children learn that they aren’t good at anything. Not even turning up. These reward systems come up often when I talk to young people who are disillusioned and burnt out by school. The significance of book tokens goes beyond the money. That’s why it doesn’t work when parents say they’ll buy the book tokens instead, to try and lessen the pain of not getting the reward. Those book tokens, awarded in public in assembly, signify approval, status, validation - and to those who don’t get them, they signify the opposite
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#Giveaway alert! To celebrate The Accomplice being HALF PRICE on Amazon I am giving away 3 Eddie Flynn mugs & 1 lucky winner will also WIN MY SIGNING PEN from The Accomplice UK Tour! BUY THE ACCOMPLICE hardback now for £6.49! amzn.to/3zp5jRB RETWEET & FOLLOW TO ENTER!
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To celebrate 5 WEEKS TO GO until @SSCav's electric new #EddieFlynn thriller #TheDevilsAdvocate lands, we're giving away a VIP box featuring a limited edition proof PLUS exclusive Flynn and Brooks merch! 🎟️ RT to enter ⏰ Ends 04/07, UK only. T&Cs: fal.cn/3gtF0
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Wembley allowed 60,000 fans for the Euros but you can't go to your children's sports day. We are all being played
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Eddie Flynn is in Alabama, fighting to keep his client off death row. The prosecutor down there wins every case. Because he's behind every murder. Retweet to win a signed ARC of The Devil's Advocate. Winner chosen on Friday. Pre-order your copy here waterstones.com/book/the-dev…
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Hard to overstate the impact and influence Jim Steinman’s music has had on me. His songs are timeless in every sense of the word. So very sad. For those of that only know Bat out of Hell, here’s a few of his lesser known masterpieces.
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lizzo: I do my hair toss Check my nails Baby how you feelin? me making my toast in between cries: ᶠᵉᵉˡᶦⁿᵍ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ᵃˢ ʰᵉˡˡ
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Herbert the vacuum seems a little dramatic – at Arnolds Park, IA
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Books are banned in Wales. @Tesco can you explain why these are ‘not essential?’ They are VAT exempt as they are deemed essential by the UK Govt?
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Wherever you may be, here’s a special message from Olaf’s home to yours. “I Am With You” Music and Lyrics Written at Home by Kristen Anderson-Lopez and Robert Lopez. Performed at Home by Josh Gad. Directed at Home by Dan Abraham. #AtHomeWithOlaf #DisneyMagicMoments
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Being a parent is already 24/7 guilt/stress/anxiety but being a parent during all of this is another level of anxiety that I didn’t know existed.
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At Mothercare, we believe all mums are beautiful and should feel proud and confident about their bodies. Find out more about our #BodyProudMums campaign and Tesha and Eleanor’s stories here: bit.ly/2NreneX
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Every day is a world mental health day. We need to talk about it every. single. day. #1in4 #removethestigma
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More than 8 million children around the UK are getting ready to start a new school year ... and if we can teach them anything this year, let it be the importance of being kind to themselves and to each other. It's the most important thing they'll ever learn. #kindness
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Final thoughts... and for everyone on here, you are so inspirational and will be the reason people will begin to feel that they can be themselves. So thank you.
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