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I help men get unstuck in their relationship to go after what they want with their partner. If you’re one of those rare guys ready to act, let’s talk.

Boulder, CO
Joined April 2009
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Do you feel like roommates with your wife? No man means for this to happen. But like a garden untended to, connection with your wife withers over the years. Have you fixed your marriage through counseling? Read more at: buff.ly/5gPSgSv #shescrazy #crazywife
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Disclaimer: crude content. The truth is in your cock. It’s in your balls. The evidence is in your body. You want to have more sex than your wife. Read more at buff.ly/4hKdTNW #sexlessmarriage #marriageadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen
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Sex. It’s the biggest complaint men have about their marriages, that there’s not enough of it. Of course, this is because men are superficial and only care about the physical. If you believe that, then you know nothing about most men. Read more at buff.ly/4aAqP6F
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Every married guy has been here. What about you? Your wife asks you your opinion – and then she does what she wants, as if you never said a thing. You ask yourself… Why did she even bother to ask my opinion? Read more at buff.ly/427GIPR #marriageadviceformen
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Dave’s head is spinning. His wife just told him that she doesn’t feel like he’s on her team. “Baby,” he says, “I work 10 hours a day, I do everything I can for us to have a good life.” “What did I do wrong?” Read more at buff.ly/406lrDK #marriageadviceformen
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I hear from a lot of men who say, “I love my wife. She’s great but I don’t know if I can stay married to her.” “We haven’t had sex in months. “She’s not even interested. “She’s frigid.” Read more at buff.ly/3Pam3mK #sexlessmarriage #sexless #relationshipadviceformen
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Love ‘em or hate ‘em. The holidays are still coming. Right now before it all starts, ask yourself: What do I really want from this time of year? Do I just want to get through it all? Or do I want something more? Read more at buff.ly/404p8Lj
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In my 20 year marriage, I had a few holidays where my wife and I were just not in a good way. Is your marriage or relationship challenged these days? The holidays can be a particularly difficult time. What if you didn’t just get through the holidays? buff.ly/32uv3xR
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There are two times in his life when a man doesn’t understand women. Before marriage and after marriage. True or false? Funny or tragic? You decide. What if you could really understand your wife? Read more at buff.ly/4eTg6oK #marriageadviceformen #understandyourwife
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Fear. It shows up often in relationship. I hear a lot of men saying things like… I fear her anger. Or, I fear I’ll never be enough for her. What’s your relationship with fear? Read more at buff.ly/4fSQclQ #fearofdivorce #fearofwife #marriageadviceformen
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“She has no idea how hard I work.” Robert, a seven-figure tech entrepreneur, shakes his head. “Does she think I slave away all day just for me? Do you experience your wife as cold and distant? Read more below: buff.ly/4fOkmqk #marriageadviceformen #getherback
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Do you get more validation at work than from your wife? If you do, it would make sense that you might be avoidant at home. Such was the case for Rick. He struggled to deal with his wife’s negativity. Read more at buff.ly/4fPV5gb #marriageadviceformen
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The internet is flooded with tactics for men to fix their marriages. 1. Why are you trying to make her happy? 2. Why do you not speak up for your wants and needs? 3. Why do you struggle to set healthy boundaries with her? Read more at buff.ly/3A9yuuF #fixmymarriage
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“She does it all the time. Makes me feel bad for what I didn’t do or how I don’t show up.” Does your wife talk to you in a condescending way? In the video below I talk about what wives do that drive men crazy and how to change it. buff.ly/4bBpVWB #marriageadviceformen
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