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Fifty plus. One kid. Here's what I wish someone had told me at 35.
You don't balance it all. You rotate. Some years the career eats most of you. Some years the kids need you at every match and every exam. Some years your body sends you a bill. Pick the priority for this season and stop apologising for the ones on pause.
Kids rarely remember the big gestures. They remember the boring stuff. The same drive to school. The Sunday breakfast. The dad who put the phone face down when they started talking.
They also watch how you handle a bad day. Telling your son I messed up at work today, I'm tired teaches him more than any speech about resilience.
Pretending to be invincible just hands him the same burden 25 years later. The guilt is optional. It makes you worse at the very things you feel guilty about.
Drop a few balls. Just make sure you know which ones bounce.
DAD TO DAD:
You cannot work 50 hours a week, hit the gym every morning, build wealth, keep the house in order, be an amazing husband, show up fully for your kids, maintain friendships, pursue hobbies, eat perfectly, read every night, and still have unlimited energy left for yourself.
Something will eventually give.
And too many fathers are walking around feeling like failures because they cannot do everything at once.
Social media tells you to be a provider, a present father, a devoted husband, a successful entrepreneur, an athlete, and a man who never complains about being tired.
But you're human. Not a machine.
Your kids don't need a father who has mastered every aspect of life. They need a father who loves them, listens to them, makes time for them, and keeps showing up.
Your family needs your presence more than your perfection.
Build your career. Take care of your health. Chase your dreams. But stop measuring your worth against an impossible standard.
You don't have to excel at everything to be a great dad. Sometimes, doing enough is more than enough.
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When “indie sleaze” was actually happening, it was just called indie. But as the era gets repackaged through playlists, party photos, and Pinterest boards, the Black artists who helped shape the era are being left out.
@Santigold, Spank Rock, and @kilokish shed light on the scene they experienced, the boxes the industry put them in, and how the people telling its story shape what gets remembered.
Read the full feature by @precious1otus here: pigeonsandplanes.com/read/wh…
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Ben Affleck says losing his parents taught him that resentment and petty disputes waste your life, while unresolved relationships never repair themselves with time
“One of the lessons for me was, at the end of life, what isn’t remembered or valued and just doesn’t matter is all the stupid little shit. Whatever it is—the internecine thing, the work conflict, the petty dispute, the shit we get involved in with ourselves, the little resentments, the time you spent being offended—that shit is just a waste of time.
“As much as you can let it go, I think that’s so clearly the way to try to live. If you don’t do it, if you don’t fix it, if you don’t resolve it, it’s not just going to happen with time.”
Jon Gruden reveals Al Davis would walk into his office, draw the punt protection and quiz him on the Chargers' third corner, and says if he didn't have the answers Davis was like a freaking Doberman
"With fear. He scared the hell out of me a lot of the times, but you know, he taught me about reading, writing, and arithmetic. He says every day you can't just talk about your offense. You got to talk about our defensive line play, our fourth quarter pass rush. You got to know personnel."
"He would ask you, Who's the third corner for the Chargers? And you better know who it is. You better learn how to attack personnel on the other team, not just using your schemes."
"But he's the only guy that I ever met that could walk into your office and draw the punt protection and ask you what the calls were."
"He really challenged me to think outside the box and learn things that I didn't really have to learn or think about learning before. And if I didn't know the answers, he was like a freaking Doberman, man."
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Stay away from grown ass men with no responsibilities… it’s a matter of time before they drag you down
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“UPTOWN SHOOTERS & BRONX BOMBERS” OUT NOW 🔥🔥🔥🔥
OVER 3M+ views on the video so we had the drop record. GO STREAM ON ALL PLATFORMS 💣💣💣💣
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Shout out to @AnwarCarrots , I love that every collaboration he does is intentional and a bucket list check off of what he always wanted to do! Salute my brother
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Billionaire Boys Club x Anwar Carrots.
Shared roots. New growth.
A longtime member of the Billionaire Boys Club family, Anwar Carrots brings his own perspective to our next chapter in Los Angeles.
ComplexCon Los Angeles.
October 3 & 4. BBCIC - Booth D20.



























