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LOL it ain't fun when the rabbit has the gun.
Men can't fix it because you can't make a woman like, love, or respect you.
This is terrible advice. Lol
Men, please date women who like you. You will not have to jump through hoops in that situation.
Okay, genuine advice for the non-Chads. This is not bait. This is real advice. If you want a woman, if you want a relationship, and if you want a woman who is consistent and sticks around, you actually have to offer what Chad doesn’t. You have to offer commitment. You have to offer commitment BEFORE sex. You have to offer courtship. You have to offer dates. You have to offer gifts. You have to offer all of the things that would make her see how you’re different and make a relationship with you more enticing than a casual thing with Chad. You may not like this, and I think a lot of the time there’s a lot of resentment, so the non-Chads don’t want to do it. “Wah, wah. Why should I have to put in all the effort if Chad doesn’t?” Because you’re not Chad. Because he gets to do something you don’t. End of story. You don’t like it? Too bad. Grow up. This is life. This is what you have to do if you want to get a partner. There’s literally no way around it.
Women don't like men comparing notes. The more men who develop standards and less simping leads to less make attention and back up plan men for relationships.
This is the core of it all. The men and women who settle eventually will resent their significant other and that leads to the disrespect.
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One concept I think the higher performing Black classes need to openly bring back, and one that my wife and I are actively instilling in our children is instilling the idea in our children of being "Twice as good".
In the past we were taught to be "Twice as good just to get half the credit." Meaning we had to over perform just to get through the wall of discrimination against us.
In today's time I think we need to be "Twice as good." not to get through intense discrimination, but rather to navigate and dominate in a globally connected world with intense ethnic and individual competition, in a world where the "But we was slaves!!!!" sob story is no longer going to work as a lever to get sympathy, handouts or evade accountability.
I was told on here by many upwardly-mobile Blacks, that Black parents DO care about education. @RosebudKane25 @StephenStorey @MrAviator1906
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COPS CALLED ON BLACK 3-YEAR-OLD: A family says they were kicked off a youth soccer field in Winter Park, Florida, because their toddler was "too good."
The parents say other adults complained he "has the ball for too long." Then police showed up.
On video, an officer tells them "they're wanting you guys to head out." He gives no reason on camera and no one is arrested.
The mom says she watched a "huddle" of grown adults talking about her son. The dad: "They called the police on a 3-year-old."
He's 3. Should police ever be called over a toddler playing soccer?
Being super nice was their downfall. Women don't like those kind of guys
When I worked in restaurants I had 2 other guys I worked with quite regularly. One was maybe 5 foot 3 the other like 5 foot 4-5 at best.
When I tell you both of these guys were treated like they were subhuman by women around them I cannot stress it enough, it was BRUTAL to watch dude.
One time the shortest guy, we were at a bar after work all the people who worked there, he liked a girl we worked with. She wouldn’t kiss him ( they were the same height )
Until someone PAID HER to kiss him and she did & he was humiliated by it. The other guy was older, in his early 40’s I was late 20’s at the time. He practically gave up on relationships completely.
Both guys were super nice, down to earth wouldn’t hurt a fly. Regardless they were ignored completely. I still think about them from time to time, I hope they’re doing good
But man it was BRUTAL to witness first hand man I felt so bad
If she sleeps with you on the first night, she be might be a hoe but you know she is physically attracted to you. You can work with that
And I’ve never penalized or judged a woman for sleeping with me on the first night.
1. It tells me that she likes me enough to sleep with me.
2. It reaffirms the fact that I’m sexually arousing enough for her to “break her rules” for me.
3. Why would I denigrate a woman who gives me what I want?
4. If her sleeping with me on the first night is an indictment upon her, what does it say about my value and association to me???
Yup. They don't want to answer the question: "Why do women marry men they aren't attracted to?"
No one has a palatable answer to wives not fucking their husbands.
It all devolves to more finger-wagging, brow-beating, long-house preaching to men and how they should do more, show up more, communicate more, lighten her load, etc.
It’s all bullshit because it’s all a deflection from the ugly truths that no one wants to acknowledge.
Women will never honestly answer why they dont want to have sex with their husband. They know the social consequences of answering it.
They marry men who they arent attracted to for financial security and/or status.
1. Bullshit. Respectfully.
2. “They are just carrying so much they don’t have the energy to have sex…” is just another lie. Men who are good with women know the truth. But this “load” language is just the most recent excuse tactic women use to keep men on a perpetual hamster of “If you did XYZ, I’d be able to have sex…”
3. You don’t listen to women. You watch their actions.
4. Wives have a personal duty to be an active participant in maintaining the health of the relationship. This includes doing work to maintain “intimacy” on their side; it’s not just the husbands’ responsibility however, most of these conversations are framed as though wives are doing EVERYTHING right and are unfairly overworked while the husband is doing NOTHING right and is a lazy bum the wife suffers. It’s a disingenuous argument altogether.
5. A lot of the “overwork” and “mental load” wives do and carry is just unnecessary, closeted task lists they give themselves that no one asked and they didn’t communicate a need for help. A lot of it is just failure to communicate and obsessing over details that don’t matter. It’s anxiety from attempted perfectionism and self-martyrdom.
6. Single mothers who have multiple kids and FAR less help and resources STILL find a way to have sex when they want to. Why? Because they want to. Women have agency and choice. These married women who don’t have sex with their husbands and come up with excuses why they can’t or don’t just don’t want to have sex with their husbands (for whatever reasons). Yet they obfuscate the truth because it serves them.
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1. Most women marry men they aren’t truly SEXUALLY aroused by. They typically marry men after they’ve had all their “fun.”
2. Hormonal birth control alters their attraction triggers in men.
3. Most men and women are fat. That greatly hampers confidence, energy, desire, etc.
That sounds nice but the game was in development hell for 6 years. At the end of the day, EA didnt want to waste more money.
I can finally talk about Mass Effect Universe.
Since Bioware closed I can now reveal that I was part of the Mass Effect Council, saw what BioWare was building, and provided feedback during development.
• Set 600+ years after the Reaper War
• You play as a customizable N7 agent
• Instead of being a walking gun rack, you're a cross between John Wick and James Bond
• Shepard's legacy preserved, regardless of your ending
• A galaxy divided into three major factions
• Humanity, Krogan, Batarians, and more allied together
• Council races forming their own alliance
• The Geth emerging as a third superpower
• A galactic Cold War instead of another Reaper style invasion with a shadowy adversary
• Geth-built megastructures
• Connections between the Milky Way and Andromeda
• Experimental technology implanted in you as a unique point of difference
• Hacking and manipulating the environment
• See through walls, identify systems, remotely trigger hazards and more
• Handcrafted missions like ME1-3
• But with Hitman-style freedom in how you complete them
• Brutal close-range executions
• Squadmates who can clash with each other
• Romance wasn't being sanitised
• Liara returns - now an incredibly powerful Asari Matriarch
From what I saw, BioWare was making Mass Effect for us, the fans, not for people who don't exist.
It looked incredible.
And now we may never get to play it.
Find out more here: youtu.be/ZOWrTNazZxM
#SaveMassEffect
