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I think one of the unfortunate things abt being accommodating is that ppl eventually stop recognizing your flexibility as something you're choosing to give them. It becomes the baseline for the relationship. Then the first time you prioritize yourself, you’re demonized
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Be the person who tries to understand others, but don't forget to be the person who protects you. Your empathy is valuable. It shouldn't come at the expense of your self-respect.
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No year has emotionally drained me like this one. Everything has taken its pound of flesh from me.
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I’ve spent years in environments that made me anxious and closed off,I no longer hold space for such. As soon as I start feeling dysregulated I have to remove myself.
Went from a toxic codependent relationship with an avoidant to a man who loved me with so much effort and intention. Bought the flowers, took care of me, thoughtful asf and pray for/with me. I have nothing bad to say about his sweet ass. Raised the bar for romantic relationships.
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If you ask me about my past, I'll always say it was necessary to shape the woman I am today.
But if you catch me in a vulnerable moment, I’ll confess that my heart didn't deserve even half of what it had to go through.





















