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Yes, and she's a critical example. Marilyn Monroe could literally walk around cities incognito and chat with her friends, and then say "want to see me be Her?" With no physical changes, she'd switch on, and cause traffic jams and be recognized by all. Sir Alec Guinness could do the same, and often did post Star Wars. It's a skill worth developing.

The ‘Invisible string theory’ suggests that two people can be connected long before they meet, With couples discovering they attended the same concerts or even appeared in each other’s old photos years before crossing paths. [via/ GettyImages]

Yes this was absolutely gross, but the reaction to it all is a good example of how much gen pop underestimates how the mind of a competitive athlete operates. The instinct to compete and win overrides all embarrassment & literally any concern for how youre perceived. Nothing matters more than winning and unless an official is pulling you out youre going to keep going. People can debate whether she shouldve stopped all they want, but she didnt and she went on to win. Most people will never understand that level of competitiveness. Its also why theyll never win at that level

men are being depraved predators in fields you couldn't even imagine

i just found out that when someone tells me about their week and i answer with a story about mine, some people think i'm one-upping them. i'm not. 🥹 you tell me your flight got delayed, i tell you about the time mine did too. that's my neurodivergent brain saying "me too, i get it, i'm with you."

Let me preface this by saying that women need to be exceptionally picky about who they marry, especially if they have some success or plan to - and a lot of women would be better off single than shackled to the losers they’re with. BUT there is nothing, nothing, nothing better than being married to a good man, and no, it’s not just a piece of paper, and no, it’s not just if you’re religious (I’m not even). Being married 100% did change my relationship and entirely in positive ways. This avoidant, “we’re together for as long as it works” bs is a fear-based way of living that prevents couples (and the kids they may have) from truly becoming one and experiencing the permanence, security, and growth that comes with it. Having a big wedding is less consequential but I will add, as someone who was on the fence about having one, it’s my favorite memory of my entire life. I still think about it, we reminisce about it (together and with guests), we look at the pictures. Having everyone you love all alive and in one place is a breathtaking experience people are undermining because of the costs or some kind of anti-women hate that attributes weddings to vanity. Anyways, I just think this narrative is toxic and harmful for young women. (But Shay makes the best luggage on the market and I’m using it as we speak so no hate to her). We can and should be honest about the risks involved and acknowledge the seriously sad lack of good options for young women right now without discounting the value. This is worth fighting for (for women and for men) and the focus should be raising better men for women to partner with.

as a woman whose most commented-upon trait was my intelligence, can confirm that the majority of men who say they like intelligent women ACTUALLY mean "I like women who agree with me on everything."