He has a mother?????
Changxuan's mother applies medicine to him after his father, Yu Zhong Quan, him. Changxuan and Qixuan have a falling out
👩🏻Then look at Changxuan. What a good-for-nothing!
🐺Yu Qixuan, can you get out? Your voice annoys me
#ChengLei #XuRuohan #TheLamentOfAutumn
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boundaries are really important to express, often expressing that you are hurt is part of expressing the boundary. ‘this hurt, it will be a dealbreaker if it happens too often’.
unfortunately, too many people treat the setting of boundaries as a hostile act
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Had a great time, can't wait for next week💜
#BTS_WORLDTOUR_ARIRANG_LIVEVIEWING
#ARIASBTS
Yes. Because all our socialisation is good vs bad. Pure vs evil. Winner-take-all. It’s what we know.
And people are also becoming less likely to openly express being hurt. Because even being hurt is seen as your fault, for not having or enforcing the right boundaries.
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Esp bc forgiveness also functions as a way of restoring the social standing of the offender w/o requiring restitution. Once the victim refuses to forgive, they become the obstacle to reconciliation, & the community can treat their continued pain as disrupting social order
