i get the sentiment but I don’t think this is true because ppl are always sniffing queerness out, especially when you’re hiding/unsure. Ability to hide doesn’t mean much imo, but the fact you may have to does
but aren’t the conventions loudly stated and explained constantly? the process of opting in is exhausting but I feel like it’s easy to recognize what is deemed conventionally attractive and spend time emulating it?
the propaganda i won’t fall for is “autistic girl whose special interest is being hot”. i don’t believe 95% of u. being conventionally attractive and trendy requires a level of social awareness
i feel like it should be socially acceptable to describe long periods of poor mental health as “I was sick” when people ask why you “wasted” months or years of your life
amazing how it took boomers decades to get a grasp on shit like 'sending a text' and 'using microsoft word', but they picked up on AI almost immediately
sometimes you just gotta sit with the fact that after all of the trauma you actually will never be the same and it did change you fundamentally and there’s no going back
i choose to create new things that keep me grounded and happy but it’s really something(horrible, terrifying, excruciatingly painful) to start in deficit :/
the eadem lip balm is one of those oversaturated influencer products that unfortunately is actually worth it. i love it so much lmao i HATE that the influencers won this round but it is my favorite lip product currently