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A Male Space retweeted
I knew a fellow like this. He dated and was engaged to this girl from her mid-20s till near 40; promised kids when he was “ready.”
He dumped her when she turned 39.
He was married with his first kid on the way within the next calendar year.
Female friend has nothing.
I had only one boyfriend before I went to college, and while in college I met this man, he was almost 6 years older than me. He was funny, charming, and I liked him right away.
I was very innocent, I had no idea of the ins and outs of the dating world. I had never dated.
In high school I met a boy in my class and the rest just followed, no games, no second guessing, no nonsense. This time I was in for the shock of my life.
We clearly liked each other and spend time together, he would tell me the sweetest of things about how special I was, how it made his day to see me… but he never made me his girlfriend.
I was stuck on this man the entire 4 years I spend in college. I didn’t date anyone else, I didn’t like anyone else. I didn’t seek anyone else. Because I could not get over this man.
Now looking back and writing this, it is painful to see how stupid I was. I just remember being so utterly confused. We liked each other, we really enjoyed spending time and doing things together what the heck else did this man need or want???
I was asking all the wrong questions, clearly, he didn’t want anything else because he was getting exactly all that he wanted without having to do anything that I wanted, and needed.
Women now spend years stuck on men like these. He might officially call you his girlfriend but he will never marry you, he will never fully commit.
Women will spend 5,6,7… years waiting around just like I did, for nothing to come out of it.
He didn’t want anything more, because he already had everything he wanted. And so who cared about what I wanted? He never had to offer me security or commitment to get all that he wanted, so why would he?
He wasn’t confused.
I was.
The world is filled with men like these. Greedy enough to consume all of the land to get what they want, never willing to take a stand, never willing to get any skin in the game. They will waste your time, and they will have no moral qualms about it. A man serious about you will never, and I seriously mean, never play these games about you, and that is because he will care about you, and not just about himself. And a man that cares about you does not waste your time, your youth, your virtues and your heart.
Ambiguity is not romance. And it certainly is not love.
A Male Space retweeted
Fathers, brothers, uncles. We have stripped good men of authority, and we are surprised that evil, or simply men who would take advantage, have moved in to fill the void.
In a healthy society fathers would be able to order (force) such men to stay away from their daughters.
I had only one boyfriend before I went to college, and while in college I met this man, he was almost 6 years older than me. He was funny, charming, and I liked him right away.
I was very innocent, I had no idea of the ins and outs of the dating world. I had never dated.
In high school I met a boy in my class and the rest just followed, no games, no second guessing, no nonsense. This time I was in for the shock of my life.
We clearly liked each other and spend time together, he would tell me the sweetest of things about how special I was, how it made his day to see me… but he never made me his girlfriend.
I was stuck on this man the entire 4 years I spend in college. I didn’t date anyone else, I didn’t like anyone else. I didn’t seek anyone else. Because I could not get over this man.
Now looking back and writing this, it is painful to see how stupid I was. I just remember being so utterly confused. We liked each other, we really enjoyed spending time and doing things together what the heck else did this man need or want???
I was asking all the wrong questions, clearly, he didn’t want anything else because he was getting exactly all that he wanted without having to do anything that I wanted, and needed.
Women now spend years stuck on men like these. He might officially call you his girlfriend but he will never marry you, he will never fully commit.
Women will spend 5,6,7… years waiting around just like I did, for nothing to come out of it.
He didn’t want anything more, because he already had everything he wanted. And so who cared about what I wanted? He never had to offer me security or commitment to get all that he wanted, so why would he?
He wasn’t confused.
I was.
The world is filled with men like these. Greedy enough to consume all of the land to get what they want, never willing to take a stand, never willing to get any skin in the game. They will waste your time, and they will have no moral qualms about it. A man serious about you will never, and I seriously mean, never play these games about you, and that is because he will care about you, and not just about himself. And a man that cares about you does not waste your time, your youth, your virtues and your heart.
Ambiguity is not romance. And it certainly is not love.
Hence “dating” and “gf and bf” will be abolished the next go-around. Btw guys, in most cases, “bf” means nothing.
I had only one boyfriend before I went to college, and while in college I met this man, he was almost 6 years older than me. He was funny, charming, and I liked him right away.
I was very innocent, I had no idea of the ins and outs of the dating world. I had never dated.
In high school I met a boy in my class and the rest just followed, no games, no second guessing, no nonsense. This time I was in for the shock of my life.
We clearly liked each other and spend time together, he would tell me the sweetest of things about how special I was, how it made his day to see me… but he never made me his girlfriend.
I was stuck on this man the entire 4 years I spend in college. I didn’t date anyone else, I didn’t like anyone else. I didn’t seek anyone else. Because I could not get over this man.
Now looking back and writing this, it is painful to see how stupid I was. I just remember being so utterly confused. We liked each other, we really enjoyed spending time and doing things together what the heck else did this man need or want???
I was asking all the wrong questions, clearly, he didn’t want anything else because he was getting exactly all that he wanted without having to do anything that I wanted, and needed.
Women now spend years stuck on men like these. He might officially call you his girlfriend but he will never marry you, he will never fully commit.
Women will spend 5,6,7… years waiting around just like I did, for nothing to come out of it.
He didn’t want anything more, because he already had everything he wanted. And so who cared about what I wanted? He never had to offer me security or commitment to get all that he wanted, so why would he?
He wasn’t confused.
I was.
The world is filled with men like these. Greedy enough to consume all of the land to get what they want, never willing to take a stand, never willing to get any skin in the game. They will waste your time, and they will have no moral qualms about it. A man serious about you will never, and I seriously mean, never play these games about you, and that is because he will care about you, and not just about himself. And a man that cares about you does not waste your time, your youth, your virtues and your heart.
Ambiguity is not romance. And it certainly is not love.
A Male Space retweeted
If all society has to offer young men is the deal offered by Wilcoxian clowns, then society's existence isn't tenable, or even justified. It's going down the tubes right now, not in spite of men like Wilcox, but because of them.
A Male Space retweeted
Another absolutely brain dead post by Call Him Braddy. He has no idea why young men are checking out (and doesn't really care). He never says a fkn word about what young men are actually facing in their lives. All he ever does is chronically vomit out the mantra, "Get married. It's the solution."
Young men are rejecting the absolutely shit deal that men like Wilcox are out here selling. Because unlike Braddy, they know it's a shit deal after watching what happen to their fathers, friends and relatives who took the same stupid advice.
Here's the response from young men.
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Nearly 1 in 5 prime-age men aren’t working full-time. The usual story: de-industrialization. The untold story: demoralization:
✅ ~800K open jobs in manufacturing, construction, mining, etc
✅ Nonworking men: ~5.5 hrs/day on videos, gaming & porn
✅ 1 in 4+ idle men use marijuana regularly
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A Male Space retweeted
Authoritarianism is not the problem. Authoritarian measuress will be required to right much of what is wrong. The problem is the ideological aims that these measures are in service of.
The idea that we would be attacked and removed for speech some fans disagree with is a hallmark of authoritarianism, pure and simple. And it's growing in America. You don't have to be on our side of the girls' sports issue to see the danger. As a conservative in Seattle, I am surrounded every single day by signs and beliefs I disagree with. Never once have I considered hurting someone or trying to silence them. This is the kind of activity and ideology that will destroy our country if we don't resist it.
A Male Space retweeted
None of this is how the criminal justice works or should work. Neither victim nor the accused is entitled to some benefit of the doubt. When allegations are made, they are assessed both for credibility and whether the allegations, if credible, are sufficient to sustain an indictment, let alone a conviction.
In this case, Jane Doe (almost certainly Lucy Craig) made a statement to police that failed to allege facts that satisfy any of the statutory requirements under the penal code.
Then there are repeated statements, mostly by text confirming that she consented, eye witness accounts that she both, collected and conscious in the room and out of it. Two of the accused, Scott Kretzschmar, tested negative for ketamine (despite her accusations that they did consume ketamine). She also texted during the escapade, proving that she was neither helpness nor incapacitated.
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Interesting talk of sexual dynamics in other parts of the country. Where and when I grew up, such men would have been WRONGFULLY scared or beaten up for being around such beautiful women. With that said, discourse on looksmaxxing is a sign of a matriarchal sexual market.
I’ve had several people reply they either don’t understand looks matching or that it isn’t a thing. Mind you, looks matching has nothing to do with how attracted a couple is to each other, how successful their relationship is, or even whether they should be together.
But here’s a quick lesson in looks matching…..
Take a look at these photos of average SEC couples. If you’re shocked, baffled, or in disbelief when looking at them, congratulations! You understand looks matching perfectly.
A Male Space retweeted
People often use the word believe exactly for what they don't know. They believe in God because they can't say they know. The word seems to connote a lack of knowledge and certainty, at least in certain contexts. We don't want to believe victims or the accused, we want to know who is telling the truth and what most likely happened. All of this is made difficult by the Rashomon effect and other problems in ascertaining the truth.
A Male Space retweeted
None of this is how the criminal justice works or should work. Neither victim nor the accused is entitled to some benefit of the doubt. When allegations are made, they are assessed both for credibility and whether the allegations, if credible, are sufficient to sustain an indictment, let alone a conviction.
In this case, Jane Doe (almost certainly Lucy Craig) made a statement to police that failed to allege facts that satisfy any of the statutory requirements under the penal code.
Then there are repeated statements, mostly by text confirming that she consented, eye witness accounts that she both, collected and conscious in the room and out of it. Two of the accused, Scott Kretzschmar, tested negative for ketamine (despite her accusations that they did consume ketamine). She also texted during the escapade, proving that she was neither helpness nor incapacitated.
Guy looks like a hypertensive tomato. Stay off roids frenz. I think guys should be able to run three miles with ease regardless of their physical goals.
Watching a guy turn bright red and nearly pass out on the swim platform while his wife and kids stand there waiting to dock the boat is painful to watch.
People think carrying 260 pounds of bodybuilder muscle makes you the strongest guy at the marina.
In reality, loading up on heavy cycles kills your cardiovascular stamina so badly that wrestling an 8,000 pound fiberglass hull against the ramp current for twenty seconds feels like running a marathon.
Even his own kid on the pier is looking down like he cannot figure out why dad is collapsed over the gunwale while mom takes over the docking job.
I offered no advice and won’t. I will NEVER give advice on cracking the female attraction code.
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It could be that. Or perhaps that even in our atomized dump of a “society” there are still ordinary men who have healthy social lives and good people (men and women) around them.
A Male Space retweeted
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A Male Space retweeted
This woman just said the quiet part out loud.
“Marriage is not meant to make you happy.”
If you walked down the aisle thinking your spouse was supposed to complete your joy then you’re already set up for disappointment.
She said marriage is supposed to make you WHOLE. Make you HOLY. Happiness is just a byproduct of you doing the work on yourself.
We got it so backwards. We look at our husbands, our kids, our relationships like they’re responsible for filling the empty spots... then when they can’t, we start jumping - food, shopping, attention, whatever.
She made her point simple: You’re responsible for making YOU happy. What you fill yourself with is what overflows onto everybody else.
That part hits.
How many of us been putting pressure on the people we love to fix something only we can fix?