Sometimes the journey feels slow, but you鈥檙e still moving.
Keep showing up. One day, you鈥檒l look back and realize how far you鈥檝e come. 馃尡
What are you still trusting the process for?
Good morning
Day 294 of 365.
71 days left.馃憦馃徑馃挜馃檹馃徑
The year may not have gone the way you planned. But you鈥檙e still here and the story isn鈥檛 over.
Stop mourning what didn鈥檛 happen. Learn. Adjust. Move.
If these final 71 days became a reflection of who you want to become, what would you do differently.
and what would you finally let go of?
Good morning 馃尀馃尶馃晩锔忊槙
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You can't go a day without talking to your partner. Simply let them go and stop lying to them.
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Whatever you do in this life, NEVER LOSE HOPE.
You may be struggling today.
Your plans may not be working out.
People you started with may be miles ahead of you.
And life may not be making sense right now.
But please, don鈥檛 give up on yourself. Your current situation is a chapter of your life, not the conclusion of your story.
One day, you will look back and thank God you didn鈥檛 give up.
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Sometimes, the person you're praying to marry is praying for courage to leave you.
Pa卯nful truth: Not every love story is meant to end at the altar. Some are lessons, not long life commitments.
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When I was 21, I asked a 26-year-old woman to be my girlfriend. She got mad and told me I had no respect for asking her out.
Yesterday, after so many years, we met again and went on a date. We talked about so many things and discovered that we're both single. She's now approaching 35.
Then she asked me what I thought about us. I told her I wasn't thinking anything.
She looked at me and said, "This could be fate bringing us back together. We could try and see how it goes."
Since that date, she's been texting me actively.
Life is interesting.
Above all, love God.
A disagreement inside your own home should never turn into a fight for your safety.
A disturbing video shows a man, a young woman and a younger man arguing inside a bedroom.
Within moments, the situation escalates into physical violence.
We don鈥檛 know what started the argument or who was responsible for escalating it.
But one thing really bothers me.
People are becoming far too comfortable using violence when they can鈥檛 control their anger.
I鈥檝e always believed that being angry doesn鈥檛 give anyone the right to hurt another person.
You can disagree, argue or walk away.
But once you start using your fists, you鈥檝e crossed a dangerous line.
And when violence happens at home, the place where people should feel safest, it becomes even more disturbing.
Do you believe people are losing the ability to resolve conflicts without violence, or have we simply become more exposed to it through social media?
Imagine giving an interview for a Netflix documentary about drug dealing.
And suddenly, the police come through the door. 馃檲
Two men are being interviewed when a Dutch police intervention team storms into the room.
Within seconds, everything changes.
I had to watch it twice.
What surprises me is how comfortable some people seem talking about a lifestyle that could cost them their freedom.
Maybe they think they鈥檒l never get caught. Or maybe they鈥檝e been doing it for so long that they don鈥檛 even think about the risks anymore.
I don鈥檛 know the full story behind this footage.
But one thing really struck me.
One moment you鈥檙e sitting there telling your story like everything is normal. The next, the police are standing in front of you.
And that鈥檚 what bothers me most.
How easily people can get used to taking risks that could destroy their entire future.
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A 23-year-old final-year student (finishing this year) reached out after her parents discovered her two-year relationship with her ex (same age, also a student in 400 level who switched departments and will finish next year).
They met in year two, she says they love each other, he鈥檚 kind, has never hurt her, and he trades.
Her parents disapproved, saying he鈥檚 too young, has no business, and the future is uncertain. They told her to end it and began matchmaking her with men in their 30s who are businessmen.
The first match didn鈥檛 work out (both she and her parents disliked some of his character). They鈥檙e now trying again with another.
She doesn鈥檛 like or find these men attractive, hasn鈥檛 slept with any of them, and is still texting her ex (her first).
He is aware of the situation, went to her parents to explain himself and ask for time, but they refused, saying they don鈥檛 trust him and prefer someone with money.
She鈥檚 the first daughter; her family is not poor. She prefers her ex but says her parents (especially her dad) are on her neck and won鈥檛 allow it.
She asked for advice because she鈥檚 confused.
Here鈥檚 the conversation exchange, transcribed as is:
Her: Me and my ex are both students
Me: How old are you?
And what do those men do for a living?
Her: 23 this month
Business men
Me: How old is your ex?
Her: Same age as me
Me: Did you sleep with the first man they connected you with?
Her: No I didn鈥檛
I鈥檝e not slept with any of the men
Me: Are your parents poor?
Her: No we are okay
Me: Are you the first daughter?
Her: Yes I鈥檓 the first
Me: Are you still in touch with your ex?
Her: Yes but we just talk
Texting
Me: Is he aware of what your parents are doing?
Her: Yes he is aware of it
I told him
Me: And what did he say?
Her: He came to see my parents and explain himself
Telling my parents to give him time
But my parents still refused
Saying they don鈥檛 trust him, what if he leaves me, what if he鈥檚 not serious
And obviously parents prefer who has money
Me: Why did the first man not work out?
Her: There are some characters he displayed but I and my parents didn鈥檛 like
Both*
Me: What level are you in?
Her: Final
I finish this year
Me: Is your ex also in his finals?
Her: He switched departments so he dropped a year
He is in 400 level
But will finish this year
Next year sorry
Me: What do you want to do?
Her: My parents are on my neck
If I鈥檓 to choose I prefer my ex
But my parents won鈥檛 allow it
Especially my dad
Me: Is your ex your first?
Her: Yes
Me: Okay, it's unfortunate. But I am not your parents and I will not do this to my daughter.
However, I cannot ask you to disobey your parents.
Her: Okay
So sir, what should I do now because I鈥檓 very confused
Me: If you cannot convince your parents to reconsider, then there is nothing you can do.
Her: It is well
Thank you sir
I appreciate you for your time
What would you tell her to do?
End.
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Imagine finding TRUE LOVE and BIG D in the same person. 馃ス
God didn't just answer your prayers,he added a bonus package. 馃ケ
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Never pursue public applause at the expense of personal damage.
Don鈥檛 destroy your peace to impress people.
Don鈥檛 sacrifice your health to prove a point.
Don鈥檛 go broke trying to look successful.
Don鈥檛 lose yourself trying to earn validation from people who don鈥檛 care about your struggles.
The applause will fade, the crowd will move on, but you鈥檒l be left to live with the consequences of your choices.
Build a life that looks good from the outside, but feels good on the inside, too.
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Again, I am advising you people on premium+ or higher plans to make use of Grok Bot.
Especially if you're a big account with massive engagement.
Except you do not have any other job, other than being on X.
Even at that, it's a lot of work.
I don't hide updates.
What is working for me is what I'll share with you all.
I don't own X, but when I see what I am benefiting from, I'll share with you all so you can benefit from it as well.
If I tell you what Grok Bot does for me, you'll not believe it.
Stop being docile and thinking that X is still like X of 2,3 years ago.
There is so much that you can delegate and free yourself from stress in managing your big account.
You may not even need a social media account manager in the long run.
And you save yourself a lot of money.
I have said my own.
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