Carina

After my recent India tour, I can relate to EVERY WORD of this. 🇮🇳 Let me make one thing clear: I absolutely love India, its culture, its hospitality and the genuinely wonderful gentlemen I’ve had the pleasure of meeting. Some were incredibly respectful, well-educated, generous and knew exactly how to treat a woman. BUT, my goodness, the other side of touring India is EXHAUSTING. 😭 First of all, READ THE DAMN AD. How difficult is that?! “Available ?” “Price?” “Location?” “ shots?” “Send me pictures ?” are we communicating in complete sentences or playing a guessing game?! 💀 Then come the gentlemen who actually read your ad, complete the screening, make the requested initial transfer and confirm a lovely arrangement. Wonderful, right? WRONG. Suddenly something comes up. They want to reschedule. Then reschedule AGAIN. Sometimes they simply don’t show up. And yes, you’ve made the initial transfer, but darling, my TIME is worth something too. I have travel arrangements, a schedule and other commitments. Your initial transfer doesn’t give you unlimited access to my calendar. Another thing I’ve noticed is the constant expectation of NEGOTIATION. Some visiting ladies may choose to lower their investments or offer discounts, and that’s entirely their business. But don’t assume every woman will do the same. My time and standards are not up for negotiation. I’ve also had some lovely experiences with Indian gentlemen living abroad. In my personal experience, many have been relaxed, considerate and excellent communicators. But I wouldn’t pretend that every encounter during this particular tour was equally pleasant. And can we PLEASE talk about respecting physical boundaries? Being overly rough, biting someone’s lips or using excessive force without consent is NOT passion. It is disrespectful and completely unacceptable. Money does not buy permission to disregard a woman’s comfort or boundaries. And frankly, some of them are absolutely TERRIBLE when it comes to intimacy. They just lie there expecting you to do ALL the work. Where is the romance, the chemistry, the give and take?! In my experience, the European / American gentlemen I've met have prioritised mutual pleasure, affection and attentiveness. Darling, intimacy is a TWO-WAY STREET, not a one-woman performance. I also cannot stress this enough to other touring ladies: PROTECT YOUR PRIVACY. Keep your personal number, accommodation, identity and travel information confidential. Competition is never an excuse for anyone to compromise another woman’s safety. My lessons from India? Full transfer for confirmed arrangements. Strict boundaries. No endless rescheduling. And if I return, it will most likely be as a short stopover during an already planned trip to Asia / elsewhere , meeting a select few people who genuinely appreciate my time. I don’t travel halfway across the world to tolerate disrespect or desperation disguised as entitlement. I visit India because I WANT to, not because I NEED to. 🥂💋 And to the genuinely wonderful Indian gentlemen who treated me beautifully, thank you. You know exactly who you are. ❤️