
🇳🇬 🇸🇦 Muslimah Writer Winner: 2022 @the_swapNG Shortlist: Discoveries 2025 Longlist: Commonwealth Prize 2022 Reproductive Health Doctor & Founder, @SRH_Ed
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Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
Your own mama no still dey spend money on you?! 🤣
Bcos my own still sent me foodstuff from Naija recently o, at this my big age 🤭
Ani ki Oloun ma bunkun wa
Replying to @RihanotOjoOba
He’s now on 47
Hopefully his feet have stopped growing, now that he’s in his 20s
From age 14 till he’s become responsible for himself, I get the son only one pair of shoes at a time
Because he outgrew them like kilode and he was wearing size 45 as a teenager so we had to buy from American brands or custom made from Naija
Wo! Parenting na scam 🤣
Replying to @Cyberhijabitech @Queen_Raffy
So… his consent would have made it ok?
Guys.
Guys!
Look what I found!!!
Replying to @roving_thinker
My brain has refused to tell me where I kept these glasses
ATP, I might just have to accept that they are lost 😞
This sounds great, as long as the passive “raising men” here is not laid at the feet of women
Hold men accountable for their actions - that’s the only root
Until then, women should arm themselves with whatever they need to navigate life, including their own money
Replying to @qaozy
It is raising men with empathy
Families functioning like they should when issues arise
Dealing with ourselves with the fear of Allah
Of course, I am not against a woman making her own money but it shouldn't be in anticipation of a man treating her terribly.
Muti'ah Badruddeen retweeted
i need muslim women to stop this rubbish infantilisation of themselves under the guise of haya. you’re an adult, stop feigning naïveté, there’s a lot of resources at your fingertips. educate yourself. you have to learn to navigate the world we live in.
This has got to be engagement farming
Recently I’ve seen a lot of people complaining about being asked to clean an Airbnb when they’ve already paid a cleaning fee
As a host, I find this attitude quite worrying
My wife and I rent out the apartment in Germany. We charge a €145 cleaning fee, and we still expect guests to:
1. Strip the beds and start a wash, separating whites from colours
2. Wash, dry and put away all dishes
3. Sweep and mop the floors
4. Take out all rubbish, separating paper, cardboard, clear glass, coloured glass, plastics, metal, organic waste and residual waste
5. Take bottles with a deposit to the supermarket return machine.
6. Send photos showing the apartment is ready before the 8:30am checkout
These tasks must be completed before departure. If you have an early flight, allow time the evening before
The cleaning fee pays for professional cleaning. It does not pay for someone to pick up after you
Here in Europe, we teach children to leave a place as they found it
I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect the same from adults on holiday
Replying to @_Rafiat
I delight in hiding owe in English to see how long before anyone catches on 😁
Replying to @Wardah_abbas
Same.
Not watching, refuse to comment.
May Allaah grant her good
And surrounding yourself/ talking with older women who currently live the life you aspire to
This has never happened before, is a scare-mongering tactic
Open your mouth and talk to women!!!
Replying to @MsNemah
I mean, apart from hot dog, most of them were close
At that age I’d have been like he goes to work
In Islam, everyone - women AND men- are expected to remove pubic and armpit hair at least once in 40 days
Let us tell this story properly, plis
In Islam, women are instructed to remove pubic hair within 40 days.
Readers added context they thought people might want to know
The hadith on removing pubic and armpit hair no more than every 40 days (maximum) applies to both Muslim men and women as part of fitrah hygiene practices.
sunnah.com/muslim:258
seekersguidance.org/answers/hanafi…
islamqa.info/en/answers/394…
Muti'ah Badruddeen retweeted
Training for the day job covered Dictator Island and I legit had flashbacks to Babangida/ Abacha Era
Everyone thinks they would be a rebel until you’re in it; but the instinct to survive is strong
Between Hope 93 and Endsars, the Nigerian people have well and truly been broken










