sima ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎~ ꒱

The problem about this whole male gaze shit is that you all are reducing women exploring their sexual desires towards other women and that being potrayed very intensely accurate in tv or the fact that the girls dressed revealing to the fact that men will use and sexualize it. How are we ever going to reach the state where love and sex between two women or women exploring their body by how they dress ect… will be accepted and normalized if we keep bringing men into the conversation?? At the end of the day anything can and will be sexualised/fetishized by men if they want to. It really angers me because it all leads back to the expectation that a woman always has to carefully think about what she does or how she does it to the outside because there’s predatory men out there. Why do women, like quinn shepard, have to restrict their work and writing from potraying those desires exactly how she did because there’s weirdos out there who will use it for their own pleasure?!?!?