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“You need bluetick to get visibility” This applies for only african ooo, Americans don’t need blue tick to get a banger on this app.
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Being a husband and a father is life-threatening.
Another man has lost his life to suicide, and it makes me think about how many men are silently struggling. I wish more men would put their ego aside and speak about what they’re going through. Financial pressure, depression, personal struggles, whatever it is. You don’t have to carry everything alone.
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If all the girls here on X start posting the nudes of guys who have DM’d them, hope you’re safe? Lmao
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Your stingy boyfriend when he sees you with your hair and nails done 👇
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A lady lent her best friend ₦2.5 million to complete the payment for a shop she wanted to rent. They had been friends for almost 9 years, so she didn’t collect any collateral or make her sign an agreement. The friend promised to refund the money within 6 months. Six months passed, and nothing happened. Whenever she asked, her friend would say business was slow and beg her to be patient. Last week, the lady went to visit her friend and discovered that she had not only opened the shop but also bought a new car. She didn’t fight her. She simply asked when she would get her money back. Her friend’s response shocked her. She said, “I don’t understand why you’re putting me under pressure. When I needed help, you helped me. Does that mean you didn’t do it from your heart?” Omo. 😂 The lady got angry and reminded her that helping someone didn’t mean the money was a gift. Her friend then accused her of being jealous of her progress and trying to frustrate her business. Now, some of their mutual friends are telling the lender to calm down because the business is still new, while others believe she should take legal action immediately. Let’s settle this honestly. If you were the lady who lent the money, would you take the matter to court, or would you give your friend more time because of the friendship?
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Being a husband and a father is life-threatening.
Another man has lost his life to suicide, and it makes me think about how many men are silently struggling. I wish more men would put their ego aside and speak about what they’re going through. Financial pressure, depression, personal struggles, whatever it is. You don’t have to carry everything alone.
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You either keep going or d!e trying.
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A tenant broke his landlord’s head for increasing his rent from N300,000 to N1,000,000 earlier today. The landlord was rushed to the hospital where he was treated, and one side of his head was bandaged with plaster and cotton wool. Immediately after regaining consciousness in the hospital, he had the tenant arrested and took him to the police station. When the tenant was interrogated, he said it was self-defense because the landlord was about to destroy the tiles he had fixed. “Did you inform your landlord before it was fixed?” The police officer asked. “I didn’t deem it necessary since I used my money and it was for my business,”He responded.
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Help me cknnect with my new subscribers. @sheila_green01 @colzy0147 @sammyloveyall @mummyk01 They’ll surely do the same. Thank you.
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For nearly 30 years, I was the person responsible for preparing every Thanksgiving dinner in our family. Turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, vegetables, desserts...you name it. I did everything myself, and nobody ever complained because the food was always ready. I'm 54, and honestly, I never minded cooking for everyone. What I did mind was how much work went into getting everything ready at exactly the same time. This year, my daughter, Emily, who is 26, and her fiancé, Daniel, recently bought their first house. They moved in around July, and she was excited about hosting Thanksgiving for the first time. I thought it was a lovely idea. She had a beautiful kitchen with brand-new appliances, plenty of counter space, and a large dining area. I was genuinely happy that she wanted to bring everyone together in her own home. Then my husband, Robert, told me something I wasn't expecting.
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i know happy marriages exist, but the internet barely shows them. all we see are cheating, divorce, manipulation, and people warning us not to get married.
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As much as this is a brilliant idea, I think one major challenge would be authenticity. People could easily make up stories to attract gifts, and separating genuine needs from fabricated ones would be difficult.
There should be a website where you post your wishes and rich people who don't know what to do with their money give you the gift anonymously.
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I don’t trust anyone lately,everything looks illusion
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🤣🤣 I'm not a bad belle oooo. But sincerely, what are you doing? What kind of relationship have you both shared? Is it proposing at first sight? 😝 If you're emotionally mature, you should know whether you've built enough connection to ask a woman out. I feel public proposals should be for the paparazzi. A public proposal should simply be a celebration of a decision you've both made privately, not an attempt to pressure someone into saying yes. How do you propose to a woman you intend to marry, only for her to say no? Were you the only one in the relationship? Or had she turned you down privately, and you decided to use the public to pressure her? Sir, your IQ needs attention. Her rejection serves you right. Go and start adulthood again! 😭😂 There should be a shared relationship history before a marriage proposal. In fact, before you finish asking, she should be reaching for the ring already! And please, I still believe men should always go down on one knee to propose, whether publicly or privately. ❤️
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Never become so desperate to keep a woman that you forget your own needs. Let her contribute, let her make sacrifices, and let her show you that she is equally interested in building the relationship. If you're always the one calling, planning, paying, compromising, apologising, and fixing things, you need to ask yourself whether you're in a relationship or running a one-man charity organisation.
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I thought love was supposed to feel so sweet always. Why does it hurt so much sometimes?🥺
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I'm someone who really appreciates a beautiful face… Me? I'm always here for the face card…. 😍😂😂
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I have a son o 😒 just incase…….
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the real world, the one outside the screen is where true healing lies.
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