ℹ️ DISCLAIMER this account primarily talks about xu ruohan, with sincere support for cheng lei as both an actor and an individual. supporting one does not lessen the appreciation for the other. this space is for celebrating their work, performances, projects, and the stories they bring to life. *** with the lament of autumn finally approaching, this account looks forward to enjoying the journey together. the story, characters, and world of this drama are genuinely appreciated. the original novel is deeply tragic, and yu changxuan may be controversial for many viewers. his choices may be difficult to understand or accept, but complicated and flawed characters are part of what makes storytelling meaningful. ye pingjun’s journey will also be painful, with plenty of heartbreak, tears, and emotionally heavy moments. viewers may disagree with her choices or feel frustrated with her, and that is completely valid. please remember that ye pingjun is fictional, while xu ruohan is the actress portraying her. the same applies to cheng lei and yu changxuan: actors are not their characters, and criticism of a fictional role should not become hostility toward the person portraying it. if the story of the lament of autumn isn’t your cup of tea, it’s perfectly okay to skip the drama. not every story is for everyone, and that’s completely fine. but please don’t turn your dislike of the storyline or its characters into hate toward the actors. you don’t have to watch a drama you dislike, and you certainly don’t have to tear down the people bringing it to life. every story has its own narrative, concept, and creative direction. you don’t have to measure every story against your own standards or assume that your perspective is the only correct one. you can dislike a story without dismissing its purpose or insisting that your interpretation is the only right one. different stories offer different experiences, and not everything has to align with your expectations. *** there is a possibility that the lament of autumn and love in red dust may air around the same time. both dramas will be supported and celebrated as part of xu ruohan’s work. love in red dust will also receive support, including wang xingyue and the rest of its cast. both projects deserve to be enjoyed and appreciated on their own. there is naturally a softer spot for the lament of autumn after such a long wait, especially with the repeated delays of love in red dust. this may make the excitement for the lament of autumn a little louder at times, but that doesn’t mean putting the other drama down. both are xu ruohan’s projects, and both will be supported in their own way. *** different favorites and opinions are completely fine. supporting one artist, pairing, or drama should never require attacking another. fans of the second female lead are welcome to choose another space if their support involves attacking xu ruohan, cheng lei, or other cast members. there is no need to engage with content that isn’t enjoyable; muting or blocking is always better than harassment. please keep criticism focused on the work and fictional characters rather than turning it into personal attacks, malicious comparisons, or fanwars. hate or harassment toward xu ruohan, cheng lei, or any cast member is not welcome here. *** at its heart, this is a space for xu ruohan, cheng lei, the cast being supported, and the stories they bring to life. if the lament of autumn and love in red dust meet us at the same time, both dramas will be welcomed, supported, and enjoyed. enjoy the stories. support the artists. respect their boundaries. keep the hate outside.

they’re both such gentle, thoughtful, and deep people, yet they’re putting so much into an angst-heavy drama while facing all kinds of criticism. even in this afternoon’s interview, you could see how emotional they were. so, to casual viewers, please keep your comments respectful. if this isn’t your kind of drama or it’s not what you’re currently watching, you don’t have to force yourself to watch it, let alone project your own expectations onto the actors and throw hate at them. if this isn’t your genre, don’t watch it. simple. you don’t get to turn your personal preferences into an excuse to throw hate at the people who worked hard to make it.

🐰: “from what we’ve seen so far, i think everyone can understand that changxuan is truly a gentle person who loves ye pingjun deeply. he gives her all his patience and all the kindness he has. even though ye pingjun has lost her memory, what kind of person was she before? i think two people who truly love each other can be perfectly in sync. that’s what makes them good partners. as they spend time together, they need to learn to let their guard down. when someone shows you love in the present, you may become willing to let go of the pain you experienced in the past. i think that’s how two people gradually grow closer to each other. i can really feel how much everyone wants these two to be together and truly love each other. but i want to say: please give them some time. people who love each other need time to understand one another, gradually let go of the past, and grow together in love. and that’s xu ruohan’s own confirmation: yu changxuan is a truly wonderful person. but ye pingjun, please give her a little time. thank you.”

obsessed. congrats yu changxuan!

yes baby i’m yours. thanks for the meal.

can we get these photos over here, leizi? xixi looks way too pretty for you to keep them all to yourself. 🤧

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dear mother, you are our mother. we’re sorry for being born with eyes that cannot repay your beauty.

them eating each other vs post party dongxi.

look at my mama when she was younger.

i believe we share the same support for them, but that doesn’t make it acceptable to take someone else’s video, replace the audio, and present it as your own without acknowledgment. supporting the same person should also mean respecting the time, effort, and creativity of fellow fans.