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I won't always say the right thing but my heart is always in the right place !!!

Mozambique
Joined July 2011
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You have to become suspicious of advice that benefits the person giving it. Upton Sinclair wrote: "It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends upon his not understanding it." The employer who praises sacrifice benetits from unpaid overtime. The relative encouraging reconciliation may be the person who would otherwise have to deal with the conflict. Some advice sounds wonderfully selfless until you consider what your decision would cost the person offering it.
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My position is this: We cannot spend years arguing that consumers should have a voice, that customer experiences matter, and that businesses should be held accountable through public reviews, only to suddenly insist that food criticism should be reserved for people with professional culinary credentials.
2 Chainz got into a DEBATE with Keith Lee after bringing up the BAD REVIEW Keith gave his restaurant, with Keith arguing that his reviews should reflect how REGULAR CUSTOMERS are treated, while 2 Chainz insisted celebrities EARN special treatment 😳👀 2 Chainz also questioned whether Keith’s strict diet as a former athlete affects his TASTE in food and how he judges restaurants. “I’m an entertainer, and obviously we get perks that other people don’t get. That’s just period, my boy. I don’t stand in line at the airport. I don’t do none of that because I done worked my ass off to do this.”
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This doesn’t sound like a man at all, men don’t speak like this, in female logic! It’s ok though, we’ll pretend this is a real text exchange
he started having this stupid mentality i genuinely didn't know men thought like this.
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The defense rests!
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This is an interesting one. The mother is the primary care giver in most cases so the kids stay with her. The affair baby would be with mom & her other children I guess from the onset. Kids cant opt out as easily especially if they're young. When they get older they can choose 🤷🏽‍♀️
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Every every purple gang activist believes "her activism" is simply All Good, absolving her of any problems caused by "Bad Activism." Any individual with a healthy perspective on the purple movement will be the first to point out how counter-productive and destructive it has become. It has become an ideology that makes monsters of men and now aims at something else. Just be a classical liberal, advocate for equality and individual rights, and dump the sex-based identity politics.
Signs of an extremely low IQ: calling a movement meant to raise awareness about the femicide happening in our country "the purple gang"
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The contradiction in feminism is that it demands the acceptance of women as autonomous individuals while trying to enforce a collective group identity. It’s such an incoherent ideology. Every feminist has a different definition of it and not one takes responsibility for any problems with it. Interestingly, Social media has brought the dark side of feminism to the light of day. You can’t unsee the evil
A woman can be a feminist and still ride a d**k if... She can marry, not marry, or define marriage on her own terms. I think feminism isn’t abt replacing one script with another. It’s about women having the freedom to choose their lives with or without patriarchy institutions!!
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This isn’t a gotcha. It’s a consistency test. When the perpetrators were men, many of you argued from individual crimes to “men,” then told men: “If you’re not guilty, why are you offended?” Now that women are among the suspects, you’re insisting we distinguish the individuals from the demographic. Yes. We agree. That’s exactly the distinction we’ve been asking you to make. Men can be disproportionately represented among violent offenders without “men” becoming the offenders. The same principle applies to women. Statistics tell us about distributions of behaviour; they don’t assign collective guilt.
Resist the urge of using the arrest of the two women for one of the murders as some "gotcha moment"
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Minister of women affairs…. The floor is yours.
Let’s be honest as men, we are violent. Some of you are even afraid to go to your local shop because you fear the men chilling on the corner. We need to be honest about this and address the violence within our own communities
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Advice isn’t a restriction. We tell people not to walk through certain neighbourhoods, lock their cars and secure their homes all the time, even in first-world countries. Nobody calls that oppression. If you don’t want to be restricted, you’re free to do whatever you want. You can ignore it. Nobody is physically stopping you from walking alone at night.
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Or log off and get real help. How will setting up a camera, recording, editing, composing a caption, and then posting a video on social media help u? It means you’re conscious enough of the struggles but choose to get attention from strangers on line. People going through real struggles don’t do this!!
I hope more women realize they can simply choose not to have this life. You don’t owe motherhood to anybody.
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If men collectively refused to recognise, legislate, enforce or protect women’s rights, then women’s agency alone would not be sufficient to compel the change. If men, who collectively controlled the political, legal and coercive institutions had unanimously refused to concede the rights, then what mechanism would’ve forced the concession? Afghan women have resisted, protested and fought for their rights for years, yet the authorities controlling the state continue to deny them education, employment, political participation and freedom of movement. Why isn’t their agency and fight enough to compel institutional change?
Men did not “give” women rights. They withheld them. Women fought for them back.
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As long as it’s the WNBA’s version of a woman, we probably would.
men would never worship a religion centered around a female goddess and her daughter, with a book written by 12 women saying that a man’s role is to be submissive and obedient. never forget that.
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Thats the part of the song when Eva is still in the middle of a run, and before she’s even finished, the saxophone comes in and picks up exactly where her voice leaves off. It’s almost like she’s still singing, except the sax takes over her voice. That transition by Gaba Cannal is just 🤌🏾.
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Spring Day has said a lot about S.A
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You have no right to judge her because you pay for sex’ is itself a judgment about his sexual behaviour. You haven’t abolished sexual moralism; you’ve simply changed who is being morally judged.
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South Africans are not beating the allegations. If you treat one of your own like this, imagine one who is not your brother. I digress!
The most painful video I’ve seen today. 😔 … we are raising barbarians who won’t amount to anything in life.
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I understand the point differently. Children aren’t equipped to console, emotionally regulate, or provide psychological support to their parents or primary caregivers. That’s precisely why emotional incest is harmful. A father telling his son “you don’t need to cry in front of your child” isn’t necessarily teaching toxic masculinity; he may be teaching him that children shouldn’t have to carry the emotional burden of adults. Adults need adult support systems.
Men really feed each other nonsense about masculinity, then when things go south, they turn around and blame women. “Don’t cry in front of your son,” “Women hate weak men”… but somehow it’s always women who are accused of creating these rules. 😭
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Female agency expands when the outcome is flattering and contracts when the outcome needs explaining. That’s why most people question women and modern feminism, it’s become almost impossible to falsify. Feminism celebrates women’s choice when they produce the statistics they want but blame society when they produce the statistics they don’t want. That’s not what adulting is!
Funny how one case is enough for men to start questioning women and feminism, but centuries of male violence haven’t made anyone question patriarchy.
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you genuinely don’t care about men, why are other women’s desire for male companionship important enough for you to criticize?
Male centered women are always so confused by the idea that other women simply do not care for men at all. Like our lives do not revolve around men nor wait for their partnership to enjoy life. You won’t travel, build, have a life, because you’re waiting for a man.. Girl bffr🫤🫤
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