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Can we talk about verification videos 🙄 SUBS: THIS IS WHY DOMMES HATE WHEN YOU ASK FOR VERIFICATION VIDEOS. 1) we probably have some form of a verification video already on our socials. 2) we have links. If one of those links is LF, OF, or Fansly, they check our id and take a live scan of our face to make sure they match. We can’t make one unless they match. 3) YOU subs are putting YOUR responsibility on us, the dommes. It is YOUR responsibility to look through socials, look at links, see if everything matches up, see if there’s already verification up. And we get annoyed when YOU think just because you have money, you are ENTITLED to a fresh verification upon your demand. NO. That’s your responsibility to vet. If you got scammed before then you allowed your gooned out dick brain to think before sending. That’s not my fault, that’s yours. 5) you’re topping from the bottom. First thing in and you’re making demands that we have to acquiesce before you submit to us. The fuck? Fuck out of here. You’re the sub. You approached me. I don’t owe you anything. 6) 95% of us are the person in the pictures. Of course there are scammers, AI, and catfishes - ON BOTH SIDES. But regardless, you chose that particular domme for a reason. You liked how they look and their personality. If the vibe is good, play ball. If you get a weird vibe, then dip. But making demands first thing as a sub is a good way to get you ignored. 7) but what’s the big deal goddess, it’ll take two seconds 🥴 it’s not a big deal. In fact I just sent two videos of myself to my best friend while you were making demands. It’s the lack of respect, the lack of responsibility YOU are taking, and topping from the bottom. Grow up. Be a responsible sub. Stop putting your shit on a domme.

Find0m side effect I experience as a domme: When I’m out in public, I can’t view men like I used to. I catch myself scanning their behavior and wondering which one of them is secretly a foot loser and a sub. Can’t help it.