Playing the comparison game with trauma is just a sick way people dismiss their own wounds. If it shattered your peace of mind, it deserves to be repaired, period.
The calendar doesn't care about your potential, and neither should your self-worth. One inch forward in silence counts, even if nobody is around to applaud it.
Waiting for external chaos to settle before finding your balance is a fool's errand. The world never goes quiet, you just have to turn down the internal volume.
The more you talk about what you’re building, the less sweat goes into the mortar. Cut the commentary, kill the press release, and let the finished structure make all the noise.