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It's coz they're rich and they know people know they're rich. Way to prove her point.
I tot it's an honest sharing of her experience. Dari awal her main concern is her daughter's education+long term future. Msia ok for schooling, but tak guarantee PR or citizenship. Betul la tu. Dahla single mum. She never said Msia bad pun. Why are ppl mad?
很多人问我，为什么离开马来西亚？来了塞尔维亚
其实我带娃在马来西亚只读了一个学期的国际学校，就溜了。😂
首先说说我为什么去马来西亚。
那时候我女儿马上就要正式上幼儿园了，我是不想让她受国内教育荼毒的。
不要来跟我争论中国教育有多好，这个话题我不想讨论。要是非要争论，那我就说：你说得对。
当时我也没找到更合适的地方。
我女儿2岁的时候，我带她去新西兰插过班，读的是一所教会幼儿园。
新西兰的幼儿园有按小时计算的政府补贴，当时我作为外国人，那所学校也帮我申请到了相关补贴。
但问题是，我没有找到合适的途径长期留下来。
而且如果我父母不能一起过去帮忙带孩子，我根本没办法一边读书或者上班，一边独自带娃。
以我的远程收入，在新西兰长期陪读，经济压力也太大了。
所以研究了很多国家以后，我选择了马来西亚槟城的一所国际学校。
那是一所非营利性质的学校，学校真的特别好。
好到什么程度呢？
当地很多家庭想让孩子进去读书，基本从孩子还在妈妈肚子里的时候就开始排队了。
我对那所学校没有任何不满意，甚至到现在都觉得它很好。
但我认真算了一笔未来10年的账。
如果只考虑当下，我带着女儿在马来西亚生活，一年20万人民币以内是可以搞定的。
问题是，孩子不会永远停留在幼儿园阶段。
如果一直在马来西亚读国际学校，未来大概有三条路。
第一，回国。
第二，去其他英语国家继续读大学。
第三，留在马来西亚读大学。
第一条路，我自己是不愿意选的。
那就剩下第二条。
如果未来去英国、美国、澳大利亚或者加拿大读大学，我需要有足够稳定的收入，才能一路支持她完成学业。
但我不敢保证，未来十几年自己一直有这个经济能力
而且就算我有能力供她读完大学，毕业以后呢？
她还是要面对签证、就业和长期身份的问题。
第三条路，继续留在马来西亚读大学。
这条路看起来成本相对可控，但我最在意的问题还是没有解决。
即使她在马来西亚完成大学教育，也不会因此自动获得永久居留或者公民身份。
毕业以后如果想留下来工作，仍然需要符合外国人就业的相关要求。
跟本地毕业生相比，她在身份和就业准入上未必有优势。
马来西亚的国际教育确实很有性价比，但对我们母女来说，它没有解决长期落脚的问题。
我不能只考虑孩子当下能不能上一所好学校。
还得考虑十年以后，我有没有能力继续供她读书，以及她成年以后有没有更多选择。
我也不想把自己未来十几年的生活，全部押在收入必须持续增长这一个前提上。
所以我一直知道，马来西亚对我们来说只是一个过渡。
后来了解了塞尔维亚，发现这里的居留路径和生活成本更符合我的需求，我就决定搬过来了。
至于马来西亚那边？
学校押金没了。签证押金没了。房租押金也没了。
全部不要了，直接走人。😂
我不觉得马来西亚不好，恰恰相反，我到现在都觉得槟城很适合生活，国际教育也非常有性价比。
只是一个地方适合生活，不代表它就适合你未来十几年的家庭规划。
对我来说，学校再好，也不能只看眼前这几年
I keep seeing vids of white travellers praising Pakistanis (against Indians) for not letting them pay for food etc. Its 2026, yet the colonial mindset and seeking their validation behaviour is still alive. You think they'll give you free stuff when you travel to their country?🙄
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Can absolutely confirm for Heidi that the first thing I look for in dating and friendship is whether someone supports Palestine and despises israel.
And I'm very sure I'm not alone.
It's the surest way to know if someone is a decent person or a demonic maniac.
Ramai menteri Msia yang work hard and do a good job, but their outfits fail them. Mamdani has a solid one. Competent bunch who understand what people want, and it shows. Hiring politically astute team is important.
Mat saleh really think we apply visa for visiting means we secretly wanna stay there. I have not even the tiniest intention of living in the western world. I'm happy in Msia. I love this place. Gile nak compare Australia dng Msia. Langit and bumi bro. God bless Msia and SEA!
Mat saleh meddle into our history much more than we do theirs. We read our own history from their perspective and accept it as the default ones. Why we allow that to happen.
As a mother, I want teachers and nurses to be paid more. Those people who clean our streets, maintain our public spaces?? Them too coz I don't want them to worry about food or rent. They really hold our society together.
Ppl are angry, and we can find similar sentiments elsewhere too. Death is one thing, but I think what's really upsetting is the perception that their family's status and wealth can get him off the crime.
Kerala Judge’s minor son hits and kills a scooter rider in Kochi. The victim’s family now alleges intimidation
Jayabalakrishnan, a father of three, was returning home after closing his roadside eatery when the Mercedes-Benz struck his scooter from behind
The 17 yr old driver was detained and later released on station bail
The family alleges the judge threatened them at the police station and police forced the victim’s brother to delete photos of the car
Police say they are investigating and examining the liability of the judge, who owns the vehicle
With centuries of Indian religious and political influence in the region, especially Indonesia and Msia, the caste system was never actually brought here. Or perhaps never took off.
Nevermind, kita tetap hamba.
Actually kan, we need to address the issue of preserving linguistic & cultural diversity while at the same time we also try to build a shared national identity.
How to do that if they're separated and the separation starts early? Sure, that's not the only issue, but its a big one
"Malaysia’s schools are now producing children who see difference as contamination, faith as a barrier, and fellow Malaysians as people to be avoided.
This is not unity. It is segregation being taught early, quietly and dangerously."
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That suhaili milking everything as much he can.
Aih Msians.. gullible betul... Don't put people on pedestal la.
Christine Lagarde is stepping down. Cool. But the video is weird though. What's up with the bandage on her face. Could have made an announcement and do the video later if needed to.
