Remember the fifth of November.

It is starting to get cold. Get a shirt and help people. Its a win win for everyone. 🤠😘🦋

Yeah Yeah. Your DJ is running late. I was reading. 🥱oh and dancing. 💃 Come and get down with me. 🫨Who said that. 🫨Giggling. Not me. Enjoy your evening. Love, Your November. 🤠😘🦋😌 youtu.be/Lrle0x_DHBM?si=nd6r… now how did that happen? 😲😳youtu.be/RmuFTu7HQHE?si=NX0c… 🤣🤠😘🦋

I have been reflecting on this for some time. @80strolls 🐳I remember she was mentioning how unfairly people were criticizing the co-pilot. Who by the way was very experienced from a child to now. Any how I remember one thing Purple said. For some reason she was bothered by what they were saying more so than normal. I was just sitting here and went OMG I may be right or I may be wrong. I pray that I don't do any harm. This is for me and for all of you out there. We think so many things.🕊️ Sometimes the noise or expectations on us stop us from the deep questions. Today I read a letter from Dr. Suneel Dhand that allowed me to make the connection. You see a few months back her son died a few days before his wedding. It was so sudden. How does a mother survive it? How does any parent survive it? His fiancé and family members? I don't know how she does it. Then everything else that is going on. 😲🦋 Anyway this is what Dr. Dan wrote. I hope it helps and answers some questions that all of you my dears are going thru. 🪺🌹🌺 HALLOWED BE THY NAME: A Tragedy A Reminder of How Precious Life Really Is Dr. Suneel Dhand Nov 10 Like a lot of people, I was deeply affected by that tragic plane crash in Florida last week. Not just the sheer terror in the pilot’s voice as the plane was coming down (I couldn’t even bring myself to listen to the entire recording). Not just the fact that it all happened in barely a minute. And not least, the heartbreaking thought that two young children were victims. For those of you who don’t know, a Learjet 60 with 9 people on board encountered severe weather over southeast Florida and plunged almost 30,000 feet in just 1 minute, hitting the ground like a missile. All 9 people died, including 2 young children aged just 2 and 4. The story was widely reported across the media and there is a full NTSB investigation looking into exactly what happened. But the part that affected me most was something else. As the tragedy was unfolding, you could hear the other pilot in the background saying, “Hallowed Be Thy Name.” He had started praying. Think about that for a moment. Here was someone who knew the end was coming. He knew there was no way out, no more options, and nothing left to try. All the training, experience, and control that a pilot normally has over an aircraft had suddenly become meaningless. And in those final moments, he turned to prayer. I found that incredibly disturbing and moving at the same time. I couldn’t listen to the whole recording, but that particular moment has stayed with me. It was such a raw reminder of the human condition. No matter how successful, intelligent, wealthy, or powerful anyone is, there are moments when we are utterly helpless. And ultimately, every single one of us will face our own mortality. Working in medicine, I’ve seen more than my fair share of tragedy. I’ve seen people who were perfectly healthy one day and fighting for their lives the next. I’ve seen families whose entire worlds were turned upside down in a matter of minutes. You would think that being exposed to these things regularly would completely change the way I live my own life. And to some extent, it has. But here’s something I’ve noticed about human nature, including myself. We get these reminders about how fragile life is. A terrible accident, a sudden illness, or the unexpected death of someone we know. We’re shaken, we reflect, and we promise ourselves that we’re going to appreciate life more. We tell ourselves we’ll stop worrying about trivial things, spend more time with family, and stop putting off the things that really matter. And then what happens? Within days, sometimes even hours, we slip straight back into our old routines. The same stresses, the same patterns, the same frustrations, and the same endless pursuit of things that, in the grand scheme of life, really don’t matter very much. It’s almost as though our brains are programmed to forget just how temporary everything is. Perhaps that’s necessary to some degree. We couldn’t function if we spent every waking moment thinking about death. But I do think we’ve gone too far in the opposite direction. We live as though we have unlimited time. The truth is that death is one of the very few absolute certainties in life. We know this intellectually, every single one of us. But how many of us actually live as though we understand it? Those people woke up that morning expecting a wonderful trip to the Bahamas. In fact the trip was booked by an entrepreneur in Texas— who was actually reasonably well-known online and had quit his Wall Street job because he wanted to build his own business that enabled him to live life and spend more time with his family. They probably had their bags packed, plans for what they’d do when they arrived, and things they were looking forward to. Just an ordinary day that was supposed to lead to some happy memories. They had plans, dreams, conversations they expected to have, and a future they assumed was waiting for them. Just like all of us. And that’s what makes tragedies like this so difficult to process. It’s not simply that something terrible happened to other people. It’s the realization that the boundary between an ordinary day and a life-changing tragedy can be frighteningly thin. We all assume there will be another tomorrow. Another opportunity to say sorry, another chance to tell someone we love them, another year to finally make that change we’ve been talking about. But none of us has been promised any of those things. I don’t believe the lesson from tragedies like this should be to live in fear. Quite the opposite. It should be to live more deliberately. If you have people in your life who mean the world to you, tell them. Hug your children and grandchildren a little tighter. Call someone you care about. Make time for the friends you’ve been meaning to see for months. And perhaps just as importantly, take a serious look at your own life. Are you genuinely happy with how you’re spending your days? Is your work making you miserable? Are you stuck in a relationship that you know isn’t right? Have you been putting off looking after your health, pursuing a dream, or making a major change because you’re waiting for the perfect time? How many more years are you prepared to spend living that way? Of course, not everything can be fixed overnight. We all have responsibilities, commitments, and difficult circumstances. But there’s a big difference between accepting that change takes time and endlessly postponing it. One of the saddest things I see is people spending decades waiting for some future point when they’ll finally start enjoying life. When the mortgage is paid off, when the kids are older, when they retire, or when work becomes less stressful. And then, sometimes, that future never arrives. Your life isn’t something that’s going to begin in five or ten years. It’s happening right now. I keep coming back to those words from the cockpit. “Hallowed Be Thy Name.” A man facing the end, with no control left over what was happening, turning to prayer. Whatever your religious beliefs, I think there’s something profoundly human about that moment. It strips away all the distractions, ambitions, and trivial concerns that consume so much of our daily lives. In the end, so much of what we spend our time worrying about becomes completely irrelevant. I hope I never forget the feeling I had hearing those words. And I hope that, unlike so many other reminders I’ve had throughout my medical career, this one stays with me long enough to stop me from slipping back into taking anything for granted. Because it’s one thing to acknowledge how precious life is, but quite another to actually change the way we live because of it. We all face this battle every day, don’t we. So please, don’t waste your precious time. Fix what you can. Change what needs changing. Appreciate the people around you. Look after your health. Stop putting your happiness on hold. None of us knows how much time we have left, and the biggest tragedy would be to reach the end wishing we’d spent more of it doing the things that truly mattered. Because one day, there will be no more opportunities to change anything. And none of us knows when that day will come. Best Wishes, Dr Suneel Dhand Website: www.drsuneeldhand.comOjais Wellness USA: www.ojaiswellness.comOjais Wellness UK/Europe: ojaiswellness.co Wu if it is doing harm to you tell me to take it down and I will. You need a hug or I do or we both do. 🤠😘🦋🐳

Good night. I know Halloween is over as your DJ. I just wasn't ready quite yet. Now don't get spooked tonight watching your last song. Sweet Dreams. Love, Your November. 😱💥🤠😘🦋🪄 youtu.be/3AKNfhfWOYM?si=_1o4…

I love the deep rich colors. 🤠😘🦋

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Your DJ had an interesting phone call. Yea. Not happening. I get to hit the ground running after a sunrise and coffee. Squinty eye. Why does this keep coming up. So I am pulling the covers over my head and not thinking about it. Love, Your November 🤠😘🦋 youtu.be/qbtIzxHIOfY?si=StYQ…

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OMG this is so funny. Way to funny.

Your DJ here. I have sometimes talked about how I don't know why I am here. For those who sleep. Enjoy it. One day when it is time you will wake up. I will be there to love you thru it, because now I know why I am still here. Love, Your November. 🤠😘🦋

I am so very happy for you Shade. 🤠😘🦋

Put on your dancing shoes. 🤠😘🦋