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“Now I am yours and you are mine.” Anyone who is popular with classical literature or historical collections would easily recognize this line as something usually written for the male character ...reflecting the patriarchal or i would say, chauvinistic belief that in an intense, committed relationship, the man is expected to play the dominant role, emotionally & spiritually in control. But that’s has never been the case with Ercan writing #YilSer . From the very beginning, Ercan has maintained that Yıldız has been the one in control. The moment she tied that scarf around his wounded hand and put the ağa ring on him, she already had him. On the outside, Serhat is the stoic, powerful ağa, but beneath it all, he has always been under her influence.(recall his e29 outburst,this was why & again in e39 ) Sevde saw it in episode 23. Akif noticed it as early as episodes 12–13. Even Jellyfish, no matter how long she denied it, realized it by episodes 21–22, which is why she wanted Yıldız gone or dead,using the "baby" because she knew there is no chance in hell for her with him. Sultan also comes to understand, in the later episodes, just how much Serhat’s survival depends on his emotional and spiritual stability with Yıldız. In episode 39 as I mentioned earlier, during the confrontation at the mountain house, he breaks down and says that a person can have a mother, father, brother, or even friends, but none of them truly see and understand him the way she does. He tells her, “If you don’t remember me, I won’t live.” Yıldız sees straight through the cold, stoic ağa facade to his fears, insecurities, & emotions. And that is why he has always been willing to let everything burn for her. To have one person who understands you more deeply than you even understand yourself is a rare gift. They call him Mecunum,psychopath,maniac in the way he loves her but only him knows the value & what he is fighting for. In the same way, he understands all of her... her impulsiveness, her unconditional love and devotion, her sense of justice & her willingness to sacrifice everything, even when it costs her. YılSer were written so beautifully from beginning to end, despite every obstacle. #HalefKöklerinÇağrısı