then giving me the runaround. I had friends "looking into flights" when the RSVP date was a month before the wedding. Like bffr you are not coming, just tell me you aren't. I also had friends ghost me when I was trying to send out invites.
We literally PAY for each person that is showing up, so if you don't show up, most times we're out $$ that we do not get back. I would have rather people told me they can't make it instead of making me chase multiple people during the week of the RSVP date to find answers and
While the day of my wedding was everything I dreamed of, I will say that if you are invited to a wedding, it is not a birthday party. I need to know if you will be attending or not and I need to know by the RSVP date I gave you. It's not a "Maybe I'll try to show up."
There are a few friends that will forever be on my shitlist for how they behaved when it came to my wedding. I was close to cutting those people completely from my life. I don't think people realize how stressful it is when you're on the other side.
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