Just obey, there's really no other option...

I’ve been thinking a lot about equality and why so many straight men push back against gay rights. When you really look at it, we’re pushing for equality, but we don’t face the same stressors they do. Straight men are expected to raise families, get married, and take on leadership roles—most leaders in society and in churches are straight men. They’re held to a much higher set of expectations than gay people are. I think that’s where a lot of the resentment comes from. We’re not equal because we’re not expected to do the same things or carry the same burdens. Even a young, jacked alpha is living a lifestyle that requires constant maintenance and pressure most gay men can’t fully relate to. There’s a whole side of what straight men go through that we often don’t experience. That’s why, instead of fighting for equality, it feels more realistic and acceptable to just serve straight men. Most of them want you to be happy too, and part of that happiness comes from serving them. When you do, they’re more accepting. They’re the ones leading the world, so it can feel naive to think we could truly be equal to them.