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Be Strict!
Dominance works best when she is strict about it. Being strict gives her a commanding presence.
He can feel her attitude just by looking at her.
When she is strict, everything she does is noticed by him, because everything she does matters.
Her body language matters, her words matter, her attitude matters. Because he knows that she will enforce her rules if he doesn't pay attention.
Being strict does not necessarily mean, being mean. She can be lovingly strict, and still have no mercy.
The most wonderful thing in a FLR is that she never has to settle for less than she wants from him. this doesn't just apply to being sexual.
It applies to domestic chores, errands, and the way he worships her. She gets to direct him on every level, and be strict about it.
Body worship for example, can be done with her rules in place. He can only worship certain areas at a time.
Perhaps she says feet only for a bit, then maybe it's massage only, hands only, tongue only....
She decides every aspect of the worship that takes place, and for how long.
Domestic chores, are to be done to her standards. He must meet her expectations.
The house should be as clean as she expects it to be. No half assing it, no sweeping things under the rug.
She will check.
As long as she is strict, he will strive to meet her expectations, or face the consequences.
The consequences can take many shapes and forms. They can be having to re-do chores, or being assigned more chores.
It doesn't have to be painful involving a pain or a whip, but that is also an option she can opt for, if she feels the need, and wants that type of training in her FLR.
She can also be strict about his pleasure. She can take it away as she sees fit. Not allow him access to her pussy.
One of the worst punishments for a submissive, is being denied access to her body.
Not even allowed to see her naked.
A couple of days of that, and he will be very sorry.
He craves her, and being allowed access to her is something he will always strive for.
So when she is strict, he knows the stakes, he knows what she may do, and it's just not worth it.
Her attitude really sets the tone here.
A no non-sense approach that says, you will submit to me, the way I want you to submit to me, or you will face severe consequences until you do.
He will quickly start conforming to her rules and obeying her without any more hesitations.
Her attitude, and strictness in this manner will arouse him, but also bring him deeper into obedience.
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SubJayAZ retweeted
I creampied at least 6 of my high-school teachers during and after i got out high-school 😈 and all the husbands knew about it 😆
SubJayAZ retweeted
A bottom is someone who will let you beat them, a submissive is someone who will do that, plus your dishes/chores, and a slave will do all that plus take you to and from LAX in between cat sitting for you 😻😻
SubJayAZ retweeted
Replying to @Mo_C_86
The most intense scenes come from a place of trust and familiarity. If you’re not taking the time to nurture a deeper relationship, you won’t find the deeper, intense experiences you crave.
Also, clear and direct communication:
“I prefer very restrictive bondage rather than simple restraints.”
“I have a very high pain tolerance and really desire to have my limits pushed.”
“I have explored degradation through these activities/scenarios, but I find these activities/scenarios to be more degrading.”
After doing every freaky thing imaginable over 35 years, I decided to give a whirl to the one thing I’ve always avoided: butt stuff! I bought this trainer six years ago and finally opened the box just a few weeks ago. I am starting to see why this is such a popular sport!
SubJayAZ retweeted
When a man tells you he’s dominant, just respond with “the submissive men I know are very powerful in their normal lives. Do you think you’re dominant because it’s the opposite?”
I’ve done it the right way and spent a small fortune buying clips, mostly at @clips4sale I find it incredibly frustrating when they are pulled off of streaming capability or do the nonsense about it processing when you paid for it long ago. Do better.
SubJayAZ retweeted
Training a male begins with determining what motivates him. Reinforcement drives behavior repetition. A male must be observed for a short time in order to discover what he views as a reward. In BDSM this can be complicated as punishment can function as a reward. Careful analysis of your subject will yield effective longterm results in managing their behavior and promoting desired behaviors. Learn what makes him salivate and then use it against him.



















