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Lover of life and african literature.

South Africa
Joined November 2021
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Women without children. Women without husbands. Women with one child. Women with only female children. Women with. Women without. Women.
People are so nasty towards women without children.
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always praying for softer, kinder and more nurturing landings. not always learning while on your knees in despair and pleading, but sometimes learning while your feet are firmly placed on the ground and you can see clearly.
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One thing I'm learning is that privacy brings a certain kind of peace. You can work on yourself, make plans, change your life and enjoy your progress without inviting everybody to have an opinion on it.
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Co-dependency in relationships is an ick. There’s no curiosity about each other because we LITERALLY share a life. Why can’t we be individuals who merge worlds without breathing down each other’s necks all the time? Give me a chance to miss you, big dawg.
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Guys please fight for the life you want. Drag yourself out of the pits of self-doubt, self sabotage and whatever the devil is whispering in your ear. We are not here for long, empty yourself up. ♥️🌸
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So we pivot. And we find a way. And we keep going.
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You have to be around older women with aspirational lives. People in their careers who live their lives extremely full and travel and do whatever they want. Because they’re going to make you want to be better and work harder.
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I feel like people don't understand that confrontation is, in fact, an act of grace. I'm putting an issue to you because I care. This is me giving you the benefit of a doubt. It's an opportunity to share your perspective and for us to reach a conclusion.
And with confrontational people, the only acceptable outcome is them being right and the conversation going exactly as they’ve planned. You can’t ask for examples or details because then you’re gaslighting. You can’t disagree and share your perspective, because again: gaslighting
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That's kind of why you confront people, always with the knowledge that that what you think/feel isn't fact. But what you will not do is make me look or sound crazy for my perspective. "So, here's the floor, tell me your version of events."
Confrontational people are never prepared for the other person having a different perspective of what happened.
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At some point, you just forgive yourself, set stricter boundaries and move on.
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~ I’m so big on gratitude because I understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so I’ll always appreciate people who show up for me in the way that I want them to.
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I really suck at being a woman of a few words. 😭
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Confronting someone is never an easy task to do. When I finally do decide to confront someone, best believe that I am prepared to hear the perspective the other person might have, I think that’s the whole purpose of confronting, hearing the other person out.
Confrontational people are never prepared for the other person having a different perspective of what happened.
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Same, same. 😂😂😂😂😂
I don't know..but I feel like a partner that cheated on you laughs at you after you’ve forgiven them 😭✋🏽
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I don't know..but I feel like a partner that cheated on you laughs at you after you’ve forgiven them 😭✋🏽
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Growing older without becoming bitter about everything you've been through. Keeping your heart open while learning from life is no small achievement.
Something people rarely call a luxury but should…
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About to start a romance book… 📖❤️ Stay with Me by Ayọ̀bámi Adébáyọ̀ I hope I smile so much that my cheeks start to hurt. 🥹❤
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If you’re fluent in English, there’s an online platform where you can teach students from Japan and China and earn about $30 per hour. Check the thread below for more details 👇
Owning a laptop is a very big achievement .
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Wrote something about doing the hard things. On my Substack.
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