What kind of measures my sister, a will can be contested, what can Zoleka do
Replying to @BrolyMrs
I think the point is he would probably now have to fight for Bavu using the legal route yet Zoleka could have simply put measures that protect him from even getting to that point
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Replying to @LaurenLondeex
Did he listen though cause all he was hearing was as if Zo was telling him that he was like Hlathi? While she was expressing her fear of marriage it was not about him yet he kept mentioning Hlathi as if Zo said he is Hlathi.
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I remember there’s couple of times Zo tried communicating to Laz about her fears of marriage and he kept saying I’m not Hlathi, maybe if he listened to her fears from the start and stop justifying that he’s not someone else we wouldn’t be here. Just saying.
#InimbaMzansi
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Replying to @GeeManxuba
Then this is a problem because we need to see and hear it.
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Replying to @GeeManxuba
No, they need to stop, and if this relationship goes to hell, then so be it because these two lack communication skills. You can't have your family being this involved in your marriage.
Replying to @limphoseeiso_ @_Mkhethwa
Most of their fight regarding Bavumile will always stem from insecurities…
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Replying to @akamupla @_Mkhethwa
Now the truth is out, he doesn't have to be this delusional anymore.
Replying to @_Mkhethwa @limphoseeiso_
She proposed they raise together and Laz was the first one to lie to his own father and say Zol is expecting his child because he was feeling the pressure from his father and wanted to make him happy and also cause of his insecurities that were constantly fuelled by his father
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Replying to @_Mkhethwa @limphoseeiso_
Laz is a grown man with agency. He was an active participant.
He could have at any point said Zoleka is lying and gone about his life.
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Replying to @Lelwaleni @_Mkhethwa
I agree with you, he chose this child for his benefit. It had nothing to do with Zo. He needed acceptance from his father. Now his father knows the truth, he should act right. Honestly, he's only going to get hurt with this delusions.
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Replying to @_Mkhethwa @limphoseeiso_
She asked, he ghosted her, she left him a vmail telling him to forget what she asked, he didn’t answer until his father arrived, got into his head about legacy & bloodlines & he made a conscious choice to tell his father that the child was his. Majola & ancestor came after that.
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I think Laz has attached his entire identity to being Bavu's father. The possibility of losing that title feels like losing his place in Bavu's life. But he's confusing being a father with owning the position. #InimbaMzansi
Can anyone explain to me, like I am 4 years old; why can't Laz just be Bavu's step father??? Why does he want to be the father so badly?? His delusions will only hurt him. #Inimba #Inimbamzansi
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Uthi usisi they are analysing her like she's a case study😭😭😂#InimbaMzansi
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“She made him Bavu’s dad”, Tshangisa please be a useful ancestor & speak up for your daughter. He was asked, he showed his discomfort with proposal, his dad & him seeking validation from his dad, for his dad to respect him as a man took over, made himself Bavu’s dad #InimbaMzansi
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Replying to @TeeCantget
We will never know, I can only go from what played out on screen. What I am trying to express is incompleteness of the narrative that it was Zo alone, that he accepted out of selflessness. He chose to accept for his own reasons & needs. Her ask became a solution to his own dad
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Zoleka is very very important to me. What will l do with you my baby
#inimbamzansi
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Shortcomings yes. Terrible wife or Makhoti? FOH! Y'll think the Ngcukanas love her just cos shes a pretty face & runs their empire? #inimbamzansi
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And lastly Zo did everything muhn 🥺 she welcomed oNgcukana, hell she even had to cut her trip short just so she could be there ngoMgidi Ka Azande 🙂 to help the same Nomfura owamqhwaba ngempama, the same Azande that did horrible things to her family 😔.
#InimbaMzansi
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She has given grace to people that called her everything under the sun. She still loves them regardless, ohh and when it comes to her kids she has done everything to make Laz feel like a father to them🥺 she created that space and he decided to invite Hlathi 🙃
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And lastly Zo did everything muhn 🥺 she welcomed oNgcukana, hell she even had to cut her trip short just so she could be there ngoMgidi Ka Azande 🙂 to help the same Nomfura owamqhwaba ngempama, the same Azande that did horrible things to her family 😔.
#InimbaMzansi
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Chuma le yena has been turned into a relationship counselor/expert by Portia 😭 #inimbamzansi














