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Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
Disabilities do not excuse you from accountability.
You can feel sympathetic for someone's struggles in life, but their disabilities do not change that their actions are problematic or harmful.
If you have the ability to be a content creator, then you have the ability to accept criticism when you do wrong.
It is your responsibility as a creator to lead by example and to correct bad behaviors. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't be a content creator to begin with, as you are in a position of influence.
Sure, disabilities can play a part in behaviors. But it is not an excuse for bad behaviors. And it should not be used as a "get-out-of-jail-free" card to avoid being responsible for your decisions.
Own your behaviors. Apologize. Grow and improve. Don't lie or distort the truth to avoid tough conversations.
And most importantly, don't coddle or enable this behavior from disabled people in your life. Set boundaries and adhere to correcting them. It does nothing but set them up for failure as an adult when they have to face reality. Infantilization is VERY harmful.
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
What I dislike the most about this space?
People automatically disliking you without even giving you a chance or getting to know you. I can totally disagree with something someone says and still respect them enough to understand we have a difference in opinions but people who outright DISLIKE you when they haven't even attempted getting to know you or your content? It's so high school.
I can disagree with people. Maybe dislike this stance on things. Remove myself from someone's vicinity because I don't agree with their world views & etc but unless someone is outright rude to me / attacks me, I don't dislike anyone and I'm also one of those people that forgives people really quickly because my inherent guilt makes me feel like everything bad that happens to me is my fault anyway so give me a week and I'll forgive you /shrug.
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
Blocking someone because they make you feel uncomfortable is a valid decision and requires no explanation. But if that person tries to force contact by creating fake accounts to continue stalking you after you have blocked them, that is harassment.
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
A gentle reminder for anyone feeling impatient:
Your growth can be taking longer simply because you refuse to compromise your values.
You aren’t taking shortcuts, lying, or selling yourself short. Slower, honest progress is quiet, but it builds a foundation you can actually be proud of.
Don’t lose heart. 🌸
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
VTubers, stop forcing connections
yes, networking is a HUGE part of this space,
but not everyone you meet is gonna become your friend, collab partner, mutual, whatever
and if you keep pushing when the energy clearly isn't being returned... it can start coming off REALLY weird
some connections happens naturally, and some don't
and that's fine
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
I swear sometimes this space feels like a highschool, so much drama and arguing 😭😭
Please just remember to be respectful and there is a mute and block button for a reason
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
Vtubers be careful. There is a known pedo going around in peoples twitch chats and communities. He has admitted to making multiple accounts in order to ban evade along side using a vpn. Please if you see him ban him as he is a disgusting pos.
Just a friendly reminder, if you have cut a person off and your life has gotten so much better, please don’t go back to them
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
Artists of Twitter, I BEG of you, stop doing posts asking people to drop their OC’s for a chance to get drawn into a YCH, then tell them get ready, to only DM said people and ASK THEM TO PAY FOR IT!!
I will NEVER work with you if you do those shitty tactics.
If I don’t reach out to you to commission you, do NOT cold DM me to ask me to PAY for something that was literally made to read as “ima pick someone/a few people to give this to”.
It’s shitty and I’m gonna start making an artist blacklist honestly.
I’m tired of the bullshit.
Lil ꕤ - TwitchCon SD 🫧 retweeted
⚠️CALL OUT POST⚠️
Hi very usual for me but after I saw this individual again pop up in someone else's chat, I refuse to let him do it again.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL OF THE TWITCH USER GRANDSHIFU_
He is a parasocial, manipulating pervert who shouldn't have internet access
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Babygirl no one is stalking you, talking about you or keeping tabs bout you home girl LMFAO you are just old news. I’m just existing peacefully ‘you know who you are’ not my fault you still see me in chats, well guess what I’m friends w a lot of people lol just block, simple
2 years with this man
Thank you for always dealing with my bs and dramatic self. Thank you for loving me, thank you for healing all the damage that I went through, thank you for reminding me what love, patience and compassion is. 🤍
You’re my man 🤍 1 year together with this man, I don’t regret it. I don’t regret the phasmo collab, I don’t regret meeting you. ( thank you grandpa for trusting me with your boy )
🎨🖌️ artist: Kai_rose on fiverr
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