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Crazy thing about being an adult is you’ll actually make the money, but there’s a long list of responsibilities. So you’re rich, but still broke. I can’t explain it 😅
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Sometimes, when I see married people/those in a relationship share some “interesting” opinions about the opposite gender, I wonder what their partners feel.
Most importantly, I wonder if they considered how their partners will feel but didn’t mind. Or if they just didn’t even remember to consider them at all. Tbh, not sure which one is better out of both.
Omooo… all these maintenance babes that year. Lol 😂
@Oluwa_bamz I say make I tag you for this post, make u refresh memory small😂
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Involve a lawyer to ask that DNA to be conducted. You are only ascertaining that the child is yours, you are also preventing an innocent man from raising a child that is probably not his as it is also possible that she was sleeping with both of you at the same time and other people. It will also help the man to know the kind of person she is.
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Lol!!! I should make friends with someone who defends the worst things in the name of politics?
And them no be lawyer?
Someone who would mock the poor, the victims of insecurity, all in the name of politics?
“I’m defending my candidate and party”.
I’m not sorry!!!
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To you, Politics is banter.
It is like Chelsea vs Man Utd.
To me Politics is about fighting for my life and the lives of my people.
So yes, I am very judgemental when it comes to politics and what people stand for.
Thank you.
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POLO AND PEOPLE: THE VISION BEHIND THE IDEA
The idea of Polo and People came from many angles, but at the heart of it all was one thing: my city, Ibadan.
At some point, I had to pause writing my book, The Unbelievable Ibadan, to think deeply about something: How do we bring Polo to the People?
I initially presented the idea as a Polo Clinic to members of the Executive Committee of Ibadan Polo Club. Through several conversations and brainstorming sessions, we began to shape it into something much bigger.
At some point, I simply told the Organizing Committee, “Just trust me.”
Because what I was proposing was, in many ways, the opposite of traditional polo culture.
Polo is an exclusive sport. Across the world, polo clubs are private communities, built around traditions, membership, relationships, and a culture that has been preserved for generations.
And here I was, proposing that we open our doors to the public.
Not because I wanted to change polo, but because I wanted people to experience it.
I have always believed that “Before we bring the world to Ibadan, we must first bring Ibadan to Polo.”
That philosophy became the foundation of Polo and People.
We opened opportunities for creatives to be featured in the Polo and People Magazine at absolutely no cost. We invited people who might never have imagined themselves stepping into a polo club, let alone experiencing the sport, meeting players, interacting with members, and becoming part of the atmosphere.
We wanted people to see beyond the horses, the mallets, and the perceived exclusivity.
We wanted them to experience the people, the relationships, the culture, and the opportunities that exist within the polo community.
For many, these were opportunities they might never have imagined having in their lifetime.
And I have always said something about polo:
“Polo takes care of itself.”
The sport has its own traditions, structures, relationships, and global community. It does not need to abandon its identity to welcome new people.
What we needed was to create a bridge between that world and the city that has hosted our club for 120 years.
And that was exactly what we set out to do.
Over the past two days, we have had fun. We have made connections, created memories, introduced new faces to the sport, and, most importantly, brought Ibadan closer to Polo.
But there is something equally important that I want everyone to understand.
Opening our doors does not mean abandoning our values. Inclusivity does not mean the absence of tradition. And accessibility does not mean the erosion of culture.
We have brought you to Polo. We have shared our world with you. We have shown you what makes this community special.
Now, we must respect the culture of Polo.
Because the ultimate success of Polo and People is not simply how many people attended, but how many people leave with a better understanding, appreciation, and respect for the sport and the institution behind it.
This was never just about organizing an event.
It was about building a bridge between a historic institution and the city it calls home.
And for me, that city will always be Ibadan.
Chief Olajuwon Enitan Subair-Adelokun
Vice President / Tournament Manager, Ibadan Polo Club
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“So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets… to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. Matthew 6:2 (NIV)
You deny a labourer his wages and rather than ask for forgiveness, you are gaslighting us that it’s an attack on you! 🤣
Tueh!
This was posted April 2026 in remembrance of April 2025 social media attack on me and it is still valid till today. Those who know me, know what I stand for and they are not complaining . In-fact one of my mentor shared how he lambasted two people who message me. Those who don’t know me and don’t care to and already have their opinion have made their conclusions. Wish them all the best too. In the end, everyone is entitled to their position and I have one life with limited energy. I better use that energy wise on productive things than replying critics .























