Your husband cheated on you and got another woman pregnant. You found out and filed for divorce. You left the house you both struggled to build and started raising your children alone, with little or no support from him. The other woman moves in with her child. They become a complete family, and her child grows up with a father, while yours only get to speak to theirs over the phone. You struggled to raise children who still bear the surname of the man who cheated on you. Years later, when your daughter will be getting married, he will show up to collect her bride price. So, who really lost? Yes, he cheated on you. But looking at how everything turned out, who lost more in the end?