If he can lie to you while dating you, don’t assume marriage will magically make him honest. DON’T IGNORE THE RED FLAGS JUST BECAUSE A WEDDING IS PLANNED.

Nerds with biceps is crazy

All an eldest daughter wants is a man she doesn’t have to be strong around. Someone who can take the lead, handle things, and make her feel safe enough to finally let her guard down.

Real talk, baby: sometimes a man shows you exactly who he is from the start, and you keep giving him chances like he’s getting a second season, a trilogy, and a whole damn reboot. 😭 if the first preview already disappointed you, stop buying tickets hoping the movie gets better. take your peace and leave the theater, sis. 💅

fun fact: when a woman is on her period, her estrogen levels drop, so when you complain that she’s “acting like a bitch,” she’s actually just acting like a MAN.

we got flying cars before men could develop their frontal lobe.

women really will be sick, bleeding, grieving, raising children, working, paying bills, and keeping an entire household functioning. and then somebody will tell her she needs to learn how to be more feminine and soft. baby, WHEN?

last night, my SEVEN-YEAR-OLD told me she doesn’t get jealous of people because she “has lots of gratitude, and when you’re grateful, there’s no room for jealousy.” ma’am?? are you an oracle??

SOMEONE KNOWING where to find you who repeatedly chooses not to show up for you, is the answer. You no longer have to keep accepting the bare minimum.

to all the girls who knowingly choose to destroy another woman’s relationship, i hope you never find the peace you took away from someone else. and to all the men who cheat on their girlfriends, fiancées, or wives, i hope you never find peace with the hurt you’ve caused.

A man who sees you asking for basic consideration and empathy as “walking on eggshells” may not be ready to show up for you the way a healthy relationship requires. if simply asking him to consider your perspective and think about how his actions affect you feels like too much for him, that’s something worth paying attention to. you shouldn’t have to feel guilty for wanting to be treated with care.

a lust-driven man can be one of the most dangerous types of men to be with. when his desires come before everything else, your feelings, your trust, and your heart can end up paying the price.

Dating a man with a trail of hurt women behind him is a dangerous game. i believe in seedtime and harvest. whatever he sows, he will eventually reap, and i don’t want to be standing in the field when the harvest comes. pay attention to how he talks about his past and the people he’s hurt. it tells you a lot about who he really is.

some men cheat because they enjoy the competition it creates. they want women fighting over them while they sit back feeling like a prize. 💯 but a real man doesn’t need multiple women to feed his ego.