Husband, dad, therapist, cook. This is a personal (not professional) account.

Kingston, Surrey, England
Joined March 2009
Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
More women than men don’t like driving at night. Turns out there’s a physiological reason.Men have more rods in their retinas which gives them better night vision. Just another under researched difference in our biologies. somethingtosay.london/uncate…
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
J.K.Rowling does not hate trans people, She does not want me dead. ☠️ We follow each other because of a mutual recognition that transgender ideology is a disease destroying women and children. She has no personal animus towards any LGBT
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Why did I blow the whistle? Because these interventions don’t work. Period. How do I know this? Because our patients told us so. Because in the privacy of the doctor’s office, where no therapist is judging, where no teacher who changed their name is listening- they knew. They knew their health was worsening, they were tired, still sad, still lost, their labs were worsening. Sometimes they knew in a matter of months, sometimes years later. But they knew.
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
Thank you to the two @Cambridge_Uni medical students who saved my step-brother's life. He was running with girlfriend on Midsummer Common and his heart stopped for 14 minutes. They didn't give up on him, kept him alive til paramedics arrived. He is on the mend and should make a full recovery
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
🚨Wow! Dominic Cummings! Never backward in coming forward 😳 So WHY does a convicted terrorist get released from prison after MI5 warn you that something else will happen WITHOUT surveillance! Majority Terrorist offences you see there’s a loophole ECHR and 0% are explained BECAUSE NOONE WANTS QUESTIONS ANSWERED - FACT Here’s the answer PLAIN N SIMPLE They don’t want you to know this! ⬇️⬇️
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
There are times when I ask myself whether I’m being a bit too hard on my employer when I accuse it of grotesque breaches of impartiality. And then I hear interviews like this. It’s absolutely staggering that Karen Dalziel, the senior BBC editor responsible for Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour, can talk about the very definition of a woman as though it’s some endlessly shifting, contested concept. During an interview with Ros Atkins (who actually does his job properly), marking 80 years of Woman’s Hour, Dalziel is asked about the Supreme Court ruling which established that the words woman and sex in the Equality Act refer to biological sex. Her response is revealing. She talks about the story moving, about how a legal judgment that settles something at one point is, for many people, merely a beginning. She even invokes the history of women getting the vote, as though the biological definition of a woman is another chapter in some great unfolding struggle for equality. Think about the offensive absurdity of this. For most of the 80 years that Woman’s Hour has been broadcasting, the meaning of the word woman was perfectly well understood. Yet here we are, celebrating that anniversary, with the programme’s own editor apparently treating that biological reality as something endlessly open to reinterpretation, rather than a fact that should underpin the programme’s coverage. Giving equal weight to the proposition that any man who declares himself a woman thereby becomes one is not a neutral, impartial position. It’s an ideological one. Dalziel isn’t finished though, and keeps digging. She suggests Woman’s Hour listeners are too old to “understand the terminology”. Presumably, these daft old bats are holding onto the quaint, hopelessly unfashionable idea that a woman isn’t a costume or a feeling but a biological reality. If only their befuddled brains could catch up with the enlightened metropolitan consensus! It absolutely enrages me listening to this. Because this is how the BBC has been hollowed out from within. By people in influential editorial positions so ideologically captured or cowardly that they can no longer distinguish between impartial journalism and progressive orthodoxies. The BBC cannot restore its reputation for impartiality while people who mistake ideological conformity for editorial balance occupy senior positions. Until they’re removed, every last one of them, all the BBC’s grand declarations about impartiality aren’t worth the paper they’re written on.
Excellent from @BBCRosAtkins. (Less so from the women’s hour editor)
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
🚨Luka Modrić on facing Jude Bellingham with England in Croatia’s 7-0 humiliation: 🗣️ Luka Modrić: “Before the game, I spoke to Jude and told him, ‘Tonight, forget everything about Madrid. You are England and I am Croatia.’ “He smiled and said, ‘I know, Luka. But don’t expect me to make it easy for you.’ “I laughed because I knew exactly what he meant. “Tonight was different because I was facing a player I know very well, but this time there was nothing familiar about the situation. “I told our midfield before the game, ‘Don’t give Jude space to turn.’ “But that’s easier said than done. “Because with Jude, if you follow him everywhere, you create space for someone else. If you give him space, he turns and drives straight at you. “And tonight we gave him too much freedom. “He was carrying the ball through our midfield, arriving in dangerous areas and connecting with Kane, Saka and Gordon. Every time England moved forward, Jude seemed to be involved. “At one point I looked at him and thought, ‘This is exactly why Real Madrid wanted him.’ “The difference is that tonight I wasn’t there to help him. I was there to stop him. “And we couldn’t. “After the game, Jude came over to me. He didn’t celebrate in my face or say anything disrespectful. He just said, ‘Luka, that was a difficult night for you.’ “I told him, ‘Yes, Jude. Very difficult.’ “Then I said, ‘Enjoy it tonight. But remember, football has a long memory. One day you will be on the other side of a night like this.’ “He smiled and said, ‘I hope not.’ “I told him, ‘You will. That’s football.’ Tonight he was the young player I once helped guide at Madrid. But on that pitch, he was England’s player and he showed Croatia exactly why he is so difficult to stop.”
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Replying to @DarlingtonUnion
Live footage from inside the RCN building:
🤖 Made with AI
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
"I'm going to accuse you of bigotry for understanding biology, genocide for denying delusion, fetishism for your sexual orientation, and fascism for your safeguarding, but I still expect you to view trans people positively." - "Trans" activism
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
我对老中一直在露脸拍视频传播女权主义的博主都怀有深深的敬意,她们承受能力真的很强👍
你们一定要真的珍惜网上能够看到的女权主义博主…她们遭遇的恶意比你们想象的要大得多。我只是偶尔发几条沾边吐槽的,但每一条都有人骂很难听的话,而且骂我的男和女都有。我发现只有聊黄色的时候大家才不会吵架,才开始聊美了。她们还可能被开户、威胁,所以她们心脏绝对比钢铁还坚硬。
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Replying to @labourunionsuk
I have finally after 43 years of membership, and being a very active senior staff rep in the NHS, resigned from my union, Unite, over it's refusal to respect women's rights. It has made it plain that it has no respect for women and believes that men who identify as women make better women than those born female. – at Haddington, Scotland
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I'm gay. I like men. That’s it. I don’t collect flags, I don’t police your words, I don’t want children anywhere near this, and I have no time for the activist sideshow. Two grown adults who love each other. That’s it. That’s all it ever needed to be.
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
I’ve now learned that members of Tribunal Tweets have also not been sent links to remotely observe the Peggie v RCN, in contravention of a case management decision made by the judge in this case. I’ve written to the President of the Scottish Employment Tribunals to complain.
Unfortunately I’ve not received a link to observe Peggie v RCN tomorrow. I’ve been told by HMCTS that links have been sent out but I’ve not received one. I can only assume that I’ve been unsuccessful in my application. I’m hoping I’ll be able to get on tomorrow.
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
Zoe Hollowood is incredibly brave to challenge her party in this way. I know what it’s like to state biological sex is real and be attacked for speaking common sense and telling the truth. She is not on my side of the political spectrum, but courage calls to courage everywhere. Zoe should be supported in trying to get the Lib Dems to stop being silly, follow the law and respect the supreme court judgement.
Yesterday our chair @hollowood_zoe asked @LibDems conference in a trans debate: "In 2026, are women allowed rights? Rights to dignity. Rights to safety. Rights to say no." Conference resoundingly voted 'no' thus deciding that women were second class citizens. 🧵
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
In a free country, you are entitled to believe you are a woman with a penis. But not to take it into a female changing room, nor to cheat your way into a female athletic competition, nor in any way to impose your private delusion on the rest of us. theguardian.com/politics/202…
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
We are brainwashing an entire generation. Indulgence of victimhood. Rejection of agency. Abdication of responsibility. This is an absolute scandal. 👇🤯🤯
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
I differ with m'learned friend @SVPhillimore on the aspect of exposing men using women's toilets. I think we have to do that until they stop doing it. But this is vile. And I'd rather be mates with the subject than the guy making the film
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Barry Thain 🟥 retweeted
Ich dachte, er müsste sterben, damit ich leben kann: Mein grösster Irrtum Ich habe meine Vergangenheit als Chris nie verleugnet. Aber ich habe dreissig Jahre lang geglaubt, dass der Mensch von damals ein Fehler war – und dass er weichen musste, damit ich leben kann. Ich habe damals einen jungen Mann hergegeben. Er war gesund. Er hatte sein ganzes Leben noch vor sich. Aber er trug eine Last in sich, die er allein nicht mehr tragen konnte. Er war verunsichert, überfordert und suchte verzweifelt nach einem Ausweg aus einer Dunkelheit, für die er keine Worte fand. Statt diesem jungen Mann beizustehen, statt seine Hand zu nehmen und ihm zu sagen: "Du bist gut so, wie du bist, wir stehen das gemeinsam durch" – habe ich ihn auf den Operationstisch gelegt. Ich habe zugelassen, dass man seinen gesunden Körper zerschneidet. Ich habe seine Männlichkeit wegoperieren lassen, Schnitt für Schnitt. Und jedes Mal, wenn Mediziner nickten und Menschen applaudierten, redete ich mir ein: Er muss verschwinden, damit ich heil werden kann. Dabei war dieser Junge nicht falsch. Er trug keinen Fehler in sich. Er war einfach nur verwundet – und ich habe ihn im Stich gelassen. Ich habe ihn geopfert und diese Flucht ein neues Leben genannt. Das Bitterste an diesen dreissig Jahren ist nicht der körperliche Tribut. Es ist die Erkenntnis, wie unbarmherzig ich zu mir selbst war. Wie lange ich mich geweigert habe, um diesen Jungen zu weinen, weil ich damit beschäftigt war, eine Illusion aufrechtzuerhalten. Wenn ich mir heute alte Bilder von ihm anschaue, sehe ich seine Augen. Ich sehe seine Einsamkeit. Und mir bricht das Herz über das, was ich ihm angetan habe. Ich musste ein halbes Leben lang den weitesten aller Umwege gehen, um zu begreifen, wie sehr er eigentlich meinen Schutz gebraucht hätte. Ich kann die Zeit nicht zurückdrehen. Ich kann die Narben nicht ungeschehen machen. Aber ich kann aufhören, ihn zu verleugnen – und heute den Kopf vor ihm senken, um Verzeihung bitten und ihm seinen Platz zurückgeben. Man kann eine seelische Not nicht wegschneiden. Wer versucht, den eigenen Schmerz mit dem Skalpell zu besiegen, zerstört am Ende nur den einzigen Menschen, der einen hätte retten können. "Frieden schliesst man nicht gegen seinen Körper – man schliesst ihn mit ihm." 🙏 #Detrans #Trans #Transition #Detransition #MentalHealth
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Tick tock. Time is running out for the gender ghouls, especially now they are going to have to pay prodigious amounts of compensation. lgbcouragecoalition.substack…
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