Seems likely, but is the wife yoruba too?

Women don't usually build house, so they don't know what it takes and it's significance.

If people are not interested in properties of dead relative, won't malicious spouse get an easy pass, to end their spouse, gain their estate and move on easily?

So sorry about your experience.

Is this what happens at your place?

Views, opinions is not right. A husband cannot decide how to bury his wife. The wife's family(fathers side, mother side) make that decision.

A ticket wey don cut.

That property is entering everybody's eye.

Some men need reminder, too much sweet toto can rub their brains off.

It's business fro most, they are going to trade.

She is playing home win, away win.

But that is what they will call him na, that is what they named him, his conversion alone would not be welcome na. Some muslims should call their son christian name? That is a non-issue in all of the matter.

Please that's entirely false. The father's side of the deceased makes the decision. A husband cannot dictate where his wife will lay. Even a grandma of 100 years, is usually returned to her father's compound, if they like, they let the husband do the burial. And that overlaps with many tribe in nigeria.

Come on, they cook, bring tots, bweasts and peace of mind, God will provide, it is well, among other things.

Most don't know how to get their man on that programme.

I think because most women don't own properties as compared to men. If you see how much widower suffer when their wife is the rich one, you will weep. In a family, there are men and women, at the mens' side they are fathers'sidem at the women's side they are mothers' side. The wickedness know no gender.

Your best decision has refused your body to be laid at home, Oya cemetry.😭 What a best decision.

That's her doing her duty, bare minimum.

Let's assume the wife actually built the house, it is still cruel refusing your hubby remains to be buried. Now he built the house and you are still refusing. What kind of tots does she have? He must must have enjoyed it too much.

Culturally those kids belongs to the husband's family. She is their mother though, families should learn to live and settle issues amicably. Her refusal, no matter how she sees it will not be welcome. If you can see from her side, family side, in law, even children, her take is not balanced.