Vini 7

Some married women are holding their husbands to standards they themselves have not met in years. You want him attentive, intentional, romantic, and emotionally present. But every evening, he comes home to criticism, cold responses, unresolved resentment, and a wife who spends more time scrolling her phone than speaking to him. You miss the man he used to be. He misses the woman he married. Accountability in marriage goes both ways. Not just in the direction that supports your argument today. And to the married men. You want your wife to respect you, trust you, follow your lead, and believe in your decisions. But you have not led anything in your house except the remote control. You know every football fixture, every player's statistics, and who owes you money, but you don't know what is keeping your wife awake at night. Leadership is not sitting at the head of the table. It is carrying responsibility when nobody is clapping. It is creating peace when tension enters the home. It is being present, dependable, and emotionally available. It is loving your wife in the way she needs to be loved, not merely in the way that is easiest for you. Many marriages are struggling because both people are busy measuring what they are not receiving while ignoring what they have stopped giving. Before asking, "What happened to my spouse?" Ask yourself, "What happened to me?" Remember Change Start With You. 🩷