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MD. FEMINIST.

A dark place
Joined May 2018
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Being a Nigerian is the worst thing that ever happened to me
Being a Nigerian is a flex.
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Mamdani rushed to Brooklyn to meet with Jewish leaders when a mass shooting happened in Australia and when a car rammed into Chabad Headquarters, but can't travel to the Bronx to meet with Ghanaians who just lost a child!
New York, it's Halloweekend! Important reminders:   1. If you're hitting any haunted houses with children, make sure to act scared so that they feel brave, like I did tonight at @nycparks’ Mad Labs Halloween Festival in Queens.   2. Make sure to vote! Early voting ends Sunday. Free pens. Costumes allowed. Get out there.
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They ordered a food tray worth over ₦250k for my friend, and she has been crashing out because she needed the money for other things. Omo! I understand her very well. Abeg, instead of ordering a food tray for that amount, just give me the money. 😭
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Make wizweyrey, Neooshiwin and Maxabunu dey cheer you on as a Medical Doctor, infact gynecologist? What a big shame
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The best thing I ever did was to command my husband to leave this app.
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These are the kinda things that excite these guys. They don’t care if the country is burning, just be a Muslim.
"I woke up extremely happy when I saw that President Tinubu went to Saudi Ariabia for Umrah. This is why we keep insisting on Muslim/Muslim ticket. If we didn't have a Muslim President, will he have gone to mecca for Pilgrimage"
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Lol, errand boy for your mouth. Lmfao 😂😂 Better go and keep talk to your dead body and spirits. Instead of looking for opportunities for smear campaign.
She has started recruiting her errand boys to come and whitewash her name. It won’t work. How much did she pay you? $114 for 4 posts? That name is stuck on this timeline for the very worst of deeds. Sit down please.
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He will NEVER tell a male passenger this nonsense.
“I don’t allow videos in my car, my car is not a content house, it’s not for content, it’s not for making videos” Uber driver warns his passenger trying to make videos of herself in his car 🙆🏼‍♂️
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Replying to @rosemaryegbo
Thanks very much! And the misogynistic male Nigerian doctors on X are raising an army of misogynistic student doctors. I debated with a few of them recently. Something has to be done. Medicine is a well respected profession.
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Instead of you people to use this opportunity to enlighten the public. Una Dey follow upper iweka boys dey do agenda. What’s now the use of you and your O& G.
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They don’t. They love policing women’s choices.
Nigerian men love children ehnnnnn.
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brudda asked if white ppl have a history of racism. safe.
My serious question, because I’m not from there, do British people have a history of calling you niggers? Like casually referring to you that way?
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The fact that you’re not used to something doesn’t make it wrong. If it were any other race they would have been like “is that how yall say it over there”.
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He's now trying to twist the narrative. He's the dangerous person.
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F: I don't appreciate you using 'dear' when we're having a professional discussion. You shouldn't use terms like 'stop it', 'lets not be dishonest', it's condescending. M: My village people see o! she is accusing me of r@pe and sexual harassment. From where to where?
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There is no medicine without empathy and ethics. If scientific knowledge is the be all end all, then the only difference between you and an AI chatbot is that an AI chatbot can be programmed not be an insufferable asshole.
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You’re an obs/gyn specialist and you’re endorsing tweets from banger boys talking about how women are perpetual victims for fearing childbirth……. Crazy mehn…. There’s no excuse for it. Obs/gyn emergencies are the most feared emergency in medicine because of how quickly they escalate and you usually have two patients. It’s very careless to be involving yourself in misogynist banger boy discussions
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Apparently, some people think Africans don’t eat seafood. I suppose all the oceans surrounding the continent and the rivers running through it must be empty, much like your head, it seems.
Replying to @ThomasMightSnap
They saw how us BLACK AMERICANS love seafood and trynna capitalize off our wave….. nothing new…
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Let’s make something very simple, if we are discussing something serious which means something to me, no be that time you go Address me as “Dear” , cos you go unleash the Edo spirits that have been subdued for generations and you go think of why you decided to be patronising.
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I attended university in America and my very first week of university my black American roommate punched me in the face. I wanted to report her to the police but I was on a student visa and unsure if I could contact the police against a citizen so I reported to the RA instead. The next week her and her BA friends stole my brand new bicycle I had bought for getting around on campus. When I used to come to America every summer for holidays when I was a child, the first and only robbery I have ever experienced in my life, was a black American who stole my bag at the mall when I hung it on my chair at the food court and got up to go and stand in the line for food. Later mall security was able to find and return my bag to me but the thief had opened it and taken my camera (it was film cameras back then) and all my money. That was how I lost all the photos I had taken at Six Flags the day before that were so important to me as a child. Tomorrow they will say Africans just magically want to avoid them out of inexplicable hate, when experiencing negative actions are a sensible reason to avoid anybody.
If you came here for college or masters, you probably won’t be able to relate to the bullying stories. But don’t downplay people’s experiences. It’s real.
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