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Joined July 2018
To be clear consent is NEVER the reason why child sexual abuse happens in families historically. Children must be taught BOUNDARIES and BODY AGENCY, before age of consent. Otherwise you imply that if a child consents to an adult sexually touching them, that's ok.
If you truly believe teaching kids about consent in low stake situations is pointless and "anti-family" And that everything was fine just doing what we've always done Why do we have a history of family members abusing children? You can disagree with the methods of improving things but do you really think the old way was grand if kids still got abused?
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It beats me how nuanced and knowledgable people are analysing language and images meanings and messages when it's about "trans", and how the same people are absolutely oblivious to any analysis when it's about children safeguarding.
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Only that this is not what we are saying. Sexual abuse, particularly CSA, is not stopped by the child not consenting. Grandmas are not the "usual suspect" of CSA. If they wanted to portrait the potential of SA, maybe a grandad sneakily forcing a child to sit on his lap would+
I’m shocked at how many people think a child shouldn’t be able to set the same boundaries as adults do, when it comes to hugging.
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work much better and would be much more accurate. But guess what, I bet all of the ones who defend protraying old women as the precursor of sexual abuse because they ask for the hug of a child she has probably raised would be outraged with an ad portraying old men+
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coercing a child to sit on his lap because "notallmen" or because it would be offensive. Also, the language is important: if CSA is centered on consent, what does it happen when the abuse child was "consenting"?
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Don't let the dangerous grandma who helped you raise your children to hug them. It is only safe if the hugger is a BDSM leathearly half-naked grandad
Phew. I've found grandads who can be hugged. Children's Books Ireland gets about €400,000 annually from government funds & they had Harry Woodgate at their International conference in 2024, & promoted Harry's book for 3- 8 year olds, which has grandads hugging. Thanks, Harry.
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Phew. I've found grandads who can be hugged. Children's Books Ireland gets about €400,000 annually from government funds & they had Harry Woodgate at their International conference in 2024, & promoted Harry's book for 3- 8 year olds, which has grandads hugging. Thanks, Harry.
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Yep, and also the one representing the problem of sexual abuse 🙄Loke grannies are the group presenting high risk right? Old witches!!
What pisses me off about that advert is the fact it's the granny who gets foregrounded in the make-old-people-as-grotesque-as-possible shot. 'Eww, old women, aren't they ugly and bothersome'.
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We have been warning this is what would happen. We said it clearly: women’s rights are under attack, if you don’t accurately define a woman you cannot protect any rights specific to women. We were called bigots. Received countless death threats from trans activists. The prime minister dismissed it as a “culture war”. But we were right.
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Buy one surrogacy journey, get $5,000 off the second. Yes. Really. Miracle Surrogacy is now offering discounts to intended parents who commission TWO surrogacy journeys AT THE SAME TIME. Two pregnancies. Two women. Two babies. Apparently, when you’re shopping for human beings, buying in bulk gets you a better deal. Welcome to the baby industry where even human lives come with promotional offers.
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Are Afghan Women and Girls Not Human Beings? Today, at a park, I watched women jogging and riding bicycles freely. 💔 As I watched them, a deep sigh escaped my heart, and my eyes filled with tears of pain. I looked at them and thought, What a different world we live in! While women in many parts of the world can exercise, ride bicycles, study, and enjoy the freedom of everyday life, girls in my homeland, Afghanistan, are denied even the most basic right to education simply because they are girls. They cannot even walk through the doors of a school to build their futures, let alone enjoy the freedom to exercise outdoors or ride a bicycle without fear and restrictions.💔
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Replying to @spikedonline
Polarizante es el debate de la pizza con piña o sin piña. Reconocer que el sexo de nuestra especie existe es de sentido común.
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Otro paciente transexual operado por el mismo cirujano que me hizo la vaginoplastia, ha tenido la complicación de fístula, es decir, las heces salen por el hueco que nos hacen. Tiene que llevar una colostomía hasta que cicatrice la fístula. Horrores que los médicos no dicen.
Hemos investigado una noticia sobre el caso de paciente trans de 22 años que debe viajar de Aragón a Cataluña para entrar al quirófano por complicaciones en la vaginoplastia: 5 veces en 6 meses. Lo que de verdad se esconde tras esa operación. Y no cuentan contraelborradodelasmujeres.…
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I'm all for children expressing whether they want a hug or not and respecting their boundaries, but this is ridiculous, in no time in history grandmothers have been a high risk of sexual child abuse.
I've watched the new We-Consent ad, carrying the Cuan logo and the State harp. Grandparents arrive at the front door. Granny goes in for a hug and a kiss. The granddaughter cringes. The message: "Not everyone wants a hug. Even from the people who love them." Nobody should force a child to hug anyone. Parents know that. But this is a campaign about sexual violence, and it has no business casting an Irish granny at the front door as the problem. That blurs two very different things and insults a lot of decent families. I'll be asking the Minister for Justice what this ad cost and who signed off on it.
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I’m taking a break from my break on here to say that the reason this ad was made, was to put the idea in people’s heads that consent is the ONLY thing that matters. It was made to imply that a child can consent to things that they do not have the capacity to actually consent to. It is directing the general public’s thoughts towards accepting pedophilia. Start with child not consenting so it’s not ok, and then as long as the child ‘consents’ -there is nothing wrong with it. This is Peter Tatchell level stuff.
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Irish government strategy meeting: Chair: “Hey folks. We need to look like we're doing something to tackle sexual violence” Comms intern: "I was told at uni 'consent' is a magic word that stops rape." Assistant paper shuffler: “Great, shall we tell people not to use pornography? That messes up sexual scripts & normalises violence.” Awkward silence... Chair- “Right. So it's agreed. Let's warn older people not to hug their grandkids without asking.”
The latest ad from the Irish Government to the Irish people, who are the font of all problems in the country and desperately need to be stopped from their bad behaviour. This time, it's hugging your grandkids.
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Replying to @Gaynotqueer1
The more they say the better 🙄
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Para abrazar a tu nieta necesitas consentimiento explícito cada vez, pero cualquier maromo que se diga mujer puede plantarse en un vestuario desnudo con esa misma nieta y su consentimiento importa cero
The latest ad from the Irish Government to the Irish people, who are the font of all problems in the country and desperately need to be stopped from their bad behaviour. This time, it's hugging your grandkids.
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A win for common sense. Finally. After I raised my concerns yesterday about the words “women” and “mother” being removed from State Parliament’s breastfeeding policy , the Premier has agreed to have them returned to all policies relating to breastfeeding. #nswpol
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‘Large numbers of women who’ve never been poor, who’ve never worked the kind of job where they’d be vulnerable to predatory men and who’ve never needed a rape crisis centre have spent the last few years vilifying members of their own sex for fighting to retain their rights’
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